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Why are boys so confusing?

September 2, 2009
By VirginiaHeart BRONZE, Torrance, California
VirginiaHeart BRONZE, Torrance, California
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Favorite Quote:
Good Girls are just Bad Girls who DON'T get Caught! <3


Why do boys always go for the pretty girls? They have to have the blonde hair and blue eyes! But what about the girls with dark hair and green eyes? Aren't they pretty too? Boys always go for the pretty girls, they want to look popular with those girls and be considered cool cause they go out with the "cute" girls! What's so cute about a ton of blonde cheerleaders thinking they're better then everyone else? In all the movies the blonde cheerleader has the guy at the beginning but then, in the end, the brunette get's him. Why can't it be like that in reality? Boys are so confusing. One moment they are together with the geeky girl, the next moment they are dancing at prom with a cheerleader. Why can't the girls that make sense and are beautiful in there own way be loved. Why are boys so cute, yet so hard.


The author's comments:
This was dedicated to a close friend of mine who feels this way.

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AmandaL BRONZE said...
on Nov. 15 2009 at 1:19 am
AmandaL BRONZE, Newton, Massachusetts
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Favorite Quote:
"When you're young, it's okay to be easily ignored." -Jason Mraz

"Why are boys so cute, yet so hard."

that's what she said

on Nov. 8 2009 at 8:49 pm
Listen. One, they're boys. That's who they are. But also, they mature slower than girls, so you're better off with an older guy anyway. But not all boys are like that. Though many are. (Trust me. I've fallen for one who I've been with twice and he's probably the biggest player/jerk on the school...AND a year younger than me.) I don't understand why the blonde and blue eyes have it, maybe this will just be a phase and will pass. Do let us hope.

Good luck.

Devan said...
on Nov. 7 2009 at 7:48 am
Devan, Cumming, Georgia
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Favorite Quote:
Romans 5:8

So so very true

Pashia said...
on Nov. 6 2009 at 2:49 pm
Pashia, Appleton, Wisconsin
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im a person you can count on. i am an outgoing girl who people want to talk to when theres trouble.. any kind of trouble. im just the girl whos next door!

psshhh.. not all guys go for cheerleaders.. honey those are JOCKS that do that. and honesly those guys and girls they own schools and this world but there only in there own world and group.. you no some guys do like blonde hair, but then some likes asian some like mexicans you no those are just the type of guys who they like and what they see in girls. if guys cant handle what you look like then you no you shouldnt feel bad they just have there own typr of girls. and yea some guys do like showing off there girlfriends but that doesnt matter they want to let his friends no that THIs girl HE's with is taken. even if she is pretty or NOt!!! everyone is beautiful in there own wayy.. no matter if your short, skiny, chuby, fat, blonde, black, or brown. who cares what you look like..

OHlivia17 said...
on Oct. 29 2009 at 8:41 am
haha I agree with this except the blonde hair blue eyed girls always being picked first because I fit that description and I'm basically invisible to guys and adversely most of the brunettes are the ones with all the dates

KellieGurl95 said...
on Oct. 19 2009 at 5:59 pm
REALLY GOOD! I like the words you used. Nice Job!

on Oct. 19 2009 at 5:17 pm
Aitana Libreros BRONZE, West New York, New Jersey
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I know sooner or later everyone will. I know YOU will too

on Oct. 19 2009 at 4:30 pm
CandieApple PLATINUM, Hartford, Wisconsin
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The world is a stage, and we are merely players- Shakespeare (at least it goes something like that!!)

yeah, i hope i find a guy just like that :)

on Oct. 19 2009 at 3:19 pm
Aitana Libreros BRONZE, West New York, New Jersey
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It's true but in time they will notice that beuty has nothing to do with what's on the outside but what they have on the inside.

on Oct. 16 2009 at 7:25 am
CandieApple PLATINUM, Hartford, Wisconsin
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Favorite Quote:
The world is a stage, and we are merely players- Shakespeare (at least it goes something like that!!)

mmhmm, some guys just don't see it.

on Oct. 15 2009 at 8:40 pm
Aitana Libreros BRONZE, West New York, New Jersey
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all girls are pretty in their own way. it doesn't matter if they are 25lbs (exaggeration) or 125 they are all beautiful on the inside

on Oct. 15 2009 at 8:36 pm
Aitana Libreros BRONZE, West New York, New Jersey
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well also think about the girls who are short with dark skin, black hair and brown eyes. I know how you fell everyone goes with their "type". football players with cheerleaders, band geeks with other geeks etc. I love what you wrote and i think a lot of girls feel that way. :)

on Oct. 15 2009 at 2:48 pm
VirginiaHeart BRONZE, Torrance, California
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Favorite Quote:
Good Girls are just Bad Girls who DON'T get Caught! <3

I know. I was just letting everyone know. :D

WhiteRaven said...
on Oct. 15 2009 at 2:35 pm
WhiteRaven, Westminster, Maryland
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" ... send hither send hither send hither the great gray shape that makes men shiver"

hey well at least we wont grow up to be all fake and be prego and be a bunch of S***** BI***** like some cheerleaders turn out to be , no offence to the non-snotty cheerleaders ,

I say , hey well if a guy wants to date a 16 year old with 6 kids already because she F**** everyone >:D hey good luck with him he might as well be stupid

on Oct. 15 2009 at 2:17 pm
mellow_melon PLATINUM, Jefferson, Maryland
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"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but my the number of moments that take our breath away."

okay, and i wasnt trying to be nasty or anything, but i get your point through the article, even though its written for your friend

on Oct. 15 2009 at 12:04 pm
VirginiaHeart BRONZE, Torrance, California
2 articles 12 photos 4 comments

Favorite Quote:
Good Girls are just Bad Girls who DON'T get Caught! <3

Okay, this was for my friend, I'm NOT a brunette with brown eyes. I am blonde with blue eyes. I'm the other girl in the article (the blonde one). The brunette girl was just a fictional (yet quite real)character. Just letting you know.

Thanks for commenting though! :D

on Oct. 15 2009 at 9:00 am
mellow_melon PLATINUM, Jefferson, Maryland
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Favorite Quote:
"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but my the number of moments that take our breath away."

well im blonde, but u dont see guys falling over each other for me. the guys like the "popular" ones, with the dyed platinum blonde hair, and the perfect body

on Oct. 12 2009 at 12:43 am
TheRaisinBranLover BRONZE, Yucca Valley, California
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nnnn eeee wayzzz

ummm i dnt agree cuz im blonde but i have green eyes but like ok never mind alot of guyz do like me but i dnt have a nice body i am way too skinny i only wiegh 92 lbs yaahh it sux ...

on Oct. 2 2009 at 10:36 am
BrittneySamantha SILVER, Tomball, Texas
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Favorite Quote:
you may say im a dreamer, but im not the only one -john lennon

are are soo right! i have brown hair and green eyes and i hang out with just dudes..they always say that the blonde chicks are hot! i think most are fake. i think guys want bonde chicks to date but in the future they will probaly end up falling for the naturally pretty ones.

winnie_h. said...
on Sep. 30 2009 at 11:42 am
i so agree, but most of the blonde ones are pretty......and so of course they'll wanna date the blonde ones