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Every high school junior and senior dreams of attending the prom – the glamour, the glitz, the dressing up, and the memories – but the prom is ­becoming more and more expensive. Is this four or five hours worth the cost? Tickets range from $50 to $80, tuxedo rentals cost about $150, flowers are $40 or more, and prom dresses average at least $250. If you rent a limousine, there goes another $400. Your prom could cost almost $1,000! Is it really worth that much?

Most proms are held at locations that have catering and a DJ. Why don’t we go back to having the prom in the school gym? Attendees could go out for dinner beforehand. Underclassmen could decorate the gym and help pay for the dance. It doesn’t really matter where the prom is held; it is the fun that you have there and the memories that are important. High school students shouldn’t have to worry about going into debt to attend their prom.

Girls could consider renting dresses or making them. I was fortunate that my mother made my date’s dress. This saved her over $100. Since girls only wear their outfits once, why not rent them like the guys do with their tuxedoes? Dresses should not have to cost so much.

There’s no problem with renting a limousine to get to and from the prom as long as more than three couples go together and split the cost, especially with the price of gas lately. Yes, limos mean fewer cars on the road and make socializing more fun, but you can only rent them for so many hours and then you are stuck.

The prom could easily become less expensive if guys wore suits and girls wore nice long dresses. Having the prom in the gym and sponsored by the underclassmen would lower the ticket price. Parents could serve a special dinner at home to defer the cost of eating out.

In these tough economic times, with more and more parents being laid off, young people should not have to spend so much on a big fancy prom.

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Piper S. said...
today at 1:41 pm:
Your opinion is well written and you provide a good argument. However from a high schooler's perspective it's totally different. This article makes me want to write my own article about the cost of prom. Good article
 
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lovingmom said...
Dec. 4, 2011 at 8:37 am:
my daughter is 16 and went to prom last may.we are catholic and she received her sacrement of confirmation two weeks before prom.our parish is strict and all the the girls had to wear a white formal,poofy floor length dress with a veil,gloves and shoes.under their dresses they had to wear a white under shirt,cloth diaper,plastic pants and tights.my daughter wore the confirmation dress as her prom dress with the gloves,tights and shoes.to prevent her from fooling around,we required her to wear th... (more »)
 
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candy said...
Aug. 22, 2011 at 5:39 am:
pliz who told you such dumb stuff what a fool that person is
 
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Alon_FreevoiceThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. said...
Jul. 26, 2011 at 8:13 pm:
So true. And prom is not for fashion show! Prom is not a beauty contest or something like that! SO why spend thousands of dollars?

This is a greeat article!!! :)
Keep writing :)
 
logos not pathos replied...
Apr. 4 at 3:25 pm :
While money is a big factor on prom, you also have to think about all the time and work that goes into making such a big event. What most people don't understand or even know is that the creating of prom is almost as important the night itself. Did you know that on average prom cost 40,000 the price of a large wedding. However look at the upside, it not only brings a community together that 40,000 dollars goes back into the economy by way of local caters, decorators, supply companies, florist, t... (more »)
 
logos not pathos replied...
Apr. 4 at 4:11 pm :
Prom is a fashion beauty contest what the heck do you think prom court voting is about. The whole this is deeper than a big party it is a socialogical and cultural rite of passage.
 
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PromMom2 said...
May 13, 2011 at 9:43 am:
The meaning of Prom is to be together, not a Red Carpet Gala.  It is important to ensure as many people can go as possible right?  So, why on earth would you go to the expense of having it at a venue miles away, charge $100/pp, rent limos, buses, tuxs, buy dresses, to find out that a great friend can't go , cuz they can't afford the ticket.  That blow!  Have it at the Gym, have dinner before hand privately, then have a blast at the dance.
 
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goodnightmoon said...
Apr. 11, 2011 at 5:58 pm:
Actually, at my school, we do a lot of what you said. The juniors raise money, decorate our gym, and have drinks and snack food. Everyone eats on their own beforehand (usually with their dates). This way, you don't have to pay to get into the dance. Most people just drive their own cars (or even carpool). Also, a lot of the guys just wear suits instead of tuxes. It all works out really nicely and fairly cheaply.
 
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heenabeena said...
Apr. 11, 2011 at 3:02 pm:
REALLY LUCKY!! My prom cost $110!!!!
 
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AspiringauhorThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. said...
Mar. 20, 2011 at 2:04 pm:
My mom bought her prom dress and wore it 6 times after prom as well... So I think that part is not necessarily true, but other than that, great article and great tips!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
 
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Corkyspaniel said...
Feb. 4, 2011 at 8:29 am:
Good point. :) I had no idea how I'll pay for my junior prom this year, but these are great ideas!
 
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TurtleShellTristaniThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Nov. 30, 2010 at 2:12 pm:
i agree. it makes classmates with smaller budgets feel really really sad to have to skimp on extravagances when it seems like everyone else can afford it. But secretly everyone has to make sacrifices to go to prom. it would help if schools had a fund or let students spilt the cost or even gave scholarships to help fund it. i love your article.
 
Tami T replied...
Apr. 4 at 3:33 pm :
What is your guys problems. My prom is 75 dollars and It's going to be amazing. Instead of griping about the expense and saying they should tone it done and make it less enjoyable so you can go do what I did talk to the prom coordinators to see about either a payment plan or work in trade for a ticket. once you have the ticket learn a new skill and make your dress or why does it have to be new go to a thrift shop for you outfit. Need a corsage...hmmm where to get a flower for my wrist. I don't k... (more »)
 
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Yeahright said...
Oct. 17, 2010 at 6:40 pm:
WhY sHOULD THE THE UNDERCLASS MEN HAVE TO PAY? AFTER ALL WE ARENT EVEN ALLOWED TO GO, SO WHY SHOULD WE HAVE TO PAY, I AM ALL FOR VOLUNTEERING TO HELP DECORATE AND ALL THAT, BUT ACTUALLY PAYING? I DONT THINK SO
 
goodnightmoon replied...
Apr. 11, 2011 at 6:00 pm :
At our school, the juniors put it on and also go. They raise money in the class to decorate, and then they also put on after prom. I think he meant something like this.
 
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babygirlinthetardis said...
Oct. 17, 2010 at 2:49 pm:
Totally agree - my school moved our prom offsite for the first time last year and loved it, but this year the price for that venue has gone up loads so that it's going to cost me £75 just for the ticket which I really can't afford. Whereas if we moved it back to the sports hall it'd only be £20 tops. Not to mention it's being held on my birthday this year so I really want to go!
 
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LadyL said...
Sept. 23, 2010 at 9:26 pm:
Well the reason why my school has prom off campus is because we have high school dances in the gym 4 times a year. Some of them are formal and some of them are not. However, prom is different, it's for the memories, but prom is also something I know I've dreamed about since elementary school. It's the celebration of being a senior. Honestly, my school prom is super expensive, but there are ways to spend less. My date ended up paying for my $110 ticket, $60 limo, and $10 flowers. I also bought a ... (more »)
 
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BeckyAdele said...
Aug. 23, 2010 at 5:37 pm:
My prom was so boring. Total waste of time.
 
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theatercamper1212 said...
Aug. 6, 2010 at 2:33 pm:
I liked reading this and it is very true. I know that my prom ticket was $50 dollars and my dress was over $250 and I did share a limo with a few friends. It was fun but I agree that we should just go back to the high school gym it just seems simple.
 
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CottonKandi said...
May 14, 2010 at 7:54 pm:

I'm attending an alternative high school and this will be my high schools final prom due to the fact that our distric is shutting our school down. We are lucky enough to have the fallowing

Dresses for girls: free from local nonprofit organization with very gentley used dresses

Accessories and shoes: same place for these and are also free

Tux: Men's Whare House is giving our guys a great deal of a $50 dollar tux rental

Prom Tickets: 25 dollars

Location: ... (more »)

 
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NeverShoutLisa said...
Mar. 18, 2010 at 2:25 pm:
Prom Tickets: 20 dollars
Dress and Shoe rental: 75 dollars
Dinner: 7 dollars
Hair & Makeup: Free
Photos: Free
The Memories: Priceless.
My prom last year was held in our High School Gym, which is where it is every year. Only a few girls buy the really lavish dresses, so we generally keep the cost low.
 
Corkyspaniel replied...
Feb. 4, 2011 at 8:29 am :
20 dollars? X) You're lucky.
 
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naturelover123 said...
Mar. 8, 2010 at 8:55 pm:
I agree...people don't need to spend so much money on prom. It's just a dance, and the memories are what matter.
 
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uhohitzfrans said...
Feb. 17, 2010 at 5:25 pm:
Our prom tickets cost $65, that includes dinner, rent and music. people get dropped off by their parents and dessert is a collaboration of cookies brought by different families. guys wear nice shirts and some wear ties. some girls buy their dresses, others make them or get them from the thrift store. all the grades 9th-12th attend, and for one night we're all equals, no one cares where you're from or how old you are. there is zero to minimal drama going around about dates and who-dance... (more »)
 
RosalindaThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 6, 2010 at 10:30 am :
oooh I think a homeschool prom would be so fun...I'm homeschooled and each year we have a winter ball for whole families which is fun, but a prom would definitely be something to look into...
 
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phoenixqueen said...
Jan. 4, 2010 at 2:50 pm:
I think that proms, and other dances, should be something that anyone can afford. It should not be a popularity contest or a see-how-much-money-you-can-spend thing. It is only one night, so why not spend your money on something worthwhile, that will last longer than a memory. Think of all the things you could do with $1000! Also, it makes the people who don't have that much money to spend (me, for instance) feel really bad that they can't go all out.
 
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Joey C. said...
Dec. 16, 2009 at 4:36 pm:
This was a very good article, and it brings up a very good point. You have some good ideas for sure, although I doubt underclassmen would help pay for a dance they won't even be going to.
 
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resilva said...
Aug. 10, 2009 at 9:28 pm:
I agree, prom should not cost more than my entire high school education. I don't know if I'll go to prom yet, but I know I won't spend $250 on a dress I'll only wear once (and if I keep it it will only serve me in 20 years to remind me how thin I used to be). Last year I had friends not just spending several hundred dollars, but several months talking about how they were going to wear their hair. (It sort of made me want to stop talking to them).
 
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Evelyn said...
Aug. 2, 2009 at 5:51 pm:
i agree completely, you're totally right! :) good job with your writing composure! Very well put together!!!! XD
 
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Abigail_W said...
Jul. 31, 2009 at 6:53 pm:
Absolutely. I don't even like the way prom dresses look. I'd much rather go in my $40 sundress with big sunflowers spattered over it. I'll betcha it's ten times prettier than the mint green one my older sister has getting moldy in the basement from ten years ago . . .
 
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Kayoung L. said...
Jul. 31, 2009 at 5:17 am:
I also agree with this piece to some extent. Although I agree that proms may get very pricey, senior prom should be something that you can look back at an cherish. Senior prom is a once in a lifetime opportunity, so if it is something your school/family can afford, you should enjoy it to its fullest.
 
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mensa4life said...
Jul. 17, 2009 at 9:49 pm:
I think proms are stupid so yeah i dont really care about all that stuff.
 
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Amy R. said...
Jul. 14, 2009 at 8:02 pm:
u have some really great points. grls should rent dresses or get them from goodwill or even make them. its betr than paying $400 to $500 for sumthing ur only gonna wear once. bsides tht having the prom in the gym makes it so tht school council wont hav 2 pay 4 a difrent location.i only hav 2 problems wit ur statements tho. underclassmen shouldnt hav 2 pay 4 sumthing they cant do. it would be nice of them to do but y should they? and whose parents really hav time to make sumthing 4 ur prom wit li... (more »)
 
J. Rae replied...
Aug. 5, 2010 at 8:54 am :
I totally agree about the good will part! I got a really expensive dress that was like 100 bucks, for ten dollars at a secondhand store! Honestly, you don't need to blow all of you money on prom. And you can trade around accesories and shoes among your friends, instead of paying for ones you wear once.
 
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Alex C. said...
Jul. 11, 2009 at 12:12 am:
I see no problem with an expensive night. Just because the families subsisting on food-stamps and welfare are unable to spend money like this, are those families who can afford it supposed to shop for their prom at Ross so as not to make the poverty-level attendees feel separate? I am wearing an Armani tuxedo to my prom, and taking my date to a 4star restaurant for dinner, and you propose that all of this is excess? That is the only correct claim in your article. It is excess, but it is lavish f... (more »)
 
pictolover replied...
Nov. 6, 2009 at 12:42 pm :
you have a point. and you can do whatever you want before prom. but how would you feel if you were the one in the 50 dollar tux while everyone else is in armani? i think we should make it to where everyone is equal and no one will get judged for having more or less than everyone else.
 
Logos not pathos replied...
Apr. 4 at 4:05 pm :
So what your saying is that if a family has worked hard and earned enough money so that they can buys  these  things your going to tell them they should have what they've earned merely because you don't have something as nice. That has to be the most selfish, Jealous thing I've ever heard. Thou shall not covet. You want what he has get a job, save up and buy one. Just because he is enjoying the things that life has given him doesn't mean you have to pout that everyone else has nicer th... (more »)
 
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Micheline said...
Jul. 7, 2009 at 3:11 am:
I agree with you but only to an extent. I believe that its only one night if you decide to only go senior year, and you should live it up...maybe the rentals might work but wouldn't you want to treasure what you wore to that one special night??...other than that i totally agree=)
 
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Clarissa R. said...
Jun. 2, 2009 at 1:53 am:
I think there's a lot of pressure put on senior student council to make the best prom ever, so if somebody wants a cheaper prom, then that person has to get together with whoever's organizing prom and suggest new ideas.
 
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rubiesrrare said...
May 29, 2009 at 9:07 pm:
i completly agree. if people think that it's too "middle school" (yes, i did hear this) to just have the prom somewhere on school campus and get a "vintage" dress from the goodwill or grandma's closet, then they don't know the extent of the economy. personally, i didn't go to my jr or sr. yr prom b/c i would have had to pay for everything out of my own pocket and it just isn't really worth it.
 
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Neble11 said...
May 13, 2009 at 11:04 pm:
I Think this is redic! If it is that hard to buy everything fundraise! And If your only going your senior year save up! its one dance... And your last one ! Go all out!!
 
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HOPEMVP said...
Apr. 29, 2009 at 5:24 pm:
I agree in many aspects. the pressure on one to the other on is how much each other wants! (LIMO, FLOWERS, TIP, RESTOURANTS, etc.) It gets crazy!
 
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liz H. said...
Apr. 27, 2009 at 3:15 pm:
I agree with you. My school is under going major budget cuts and when I suggested that we go back to crepe paper and the gym people that the idea was ridiculos. Why not save money and have the same amount of fun.
 
logos not pathos replied...
Apr. 4 at 4:08 pm :
Um, the prom is paid for by the tickets that are sold. No matter how many budget cuts there are. if only one ticket is sold at 75 dollars then the prom is going to cost 75 dollars to put on and none of that money will come from the school
 
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forever_dancer said...
Apr. 14, 2009 at 12:41 am:
that was extremely smart of you.. ps, i thought that it was funny that there ws a prom drees ad on the side! how ironic!
 
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AKlore said...
Mar. 31, 2009 at 9:43 pm:
I completly agree with what you are saying. My own Prom is coming up this month and I would much rather do something simple than have everything be dramatic. Eating in your kitchen with dollar-candlesticks is just as much fun as going to a resturaunt.
 
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iTrumpet42 said...
Mar. 31, 2009 at 1:33 am:
really good
My brother has his prom coming up, hes so xcieted but its gonna cost lik 1000 dollars!
i ttly agre wth u!!!
 
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SmileyRiley<3 said...
Mar. 4, 2009 at 11:36 pm:
that was rele good i liked your take on the subject
 
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