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It was the end of my junior year, the weekend before prom. I was riding around that night with some friends, and a bottle got passed around the car. Everyone was taking swigs. Then the bottle got to me. With it in my hand I thought, What will I do? I took a swig. That was the biggest mistake of my life – I had to drive home later that night.

We arrived at my friends’ house and watched a movie. About an hour later I asked them to bring me back to my car. Not thinking, I got in and drove off.

At a stop sign I realized a cop was sitting in the parking lot across the street. When I saw his headlights turn on, I knew he was going to follow me until I got home. About a mile from my house, the cop turned his light bar on. All I could think was, Oh no, that swig!

I pulled over and waited for him to come to my door. It felt like forever. “Can I see your license and registration, please, Miss?” He took them and went back to his car for a while. When he returned, he asked if I had been drinking.

“Yes sir,” I said. He asked me to step out of my car.

“Walk heel to toe down the white line, please.” I passed the test. Next he had me stand on my left foot and lift my right foot six inches off the ground, and hold it for thirty seconds. Anyone who knows me knows that I’m not the most coordinated person. I can’t even walk and chew gum at the same time. So, needless to say, I didn’t do the best on that test. Then he had me look right while he shined a bright light in my eyes. I passed that one too. He then asked me to take a breathalyzer test.

That’s where I messed up. I told him I didn’t want to and didn’t understand why I had to. The officer asked me three more times, and I continued to refuse.

He told me to turn around and place my hands behind my back. I thought that he was going to pat me down, but I was wrong. All of a sudden I felt cold metal on my wrists. He arrested me right then and there. As I was sitting in the back seat of his car, all I could think was, God, I’m in so much trouble … my parents are going to kill me.

The cop drove me to a town twenty minutes from my home. Being arrested was so scary. The officers brought me into a little concrete room and asked me a bunch of questions. Then they called my parents and told them where I was and to come get me or they would take me to a children’s home until my court date. When my dad got there, I ran and gave him the biggest hug ever, and he whispered into my ear, “I love you so much. Everything will be okay. Let’s go home.”

If I had only known what would happen. The next week I got an attorney, and I went to court two months after that. I was charged with a refusal. I got $700 in fines, forty hours of community service, and had to attend a MADD meeting. I’ll be on probation for a year, and I have to take driver’s ed again. And I lost my license for a whole year!

This has been a huge learning experience for me. It opened my eyes to how easy it is to make a stupid decision. I want everyone reading this to know that it’s not right to drink and drive, and it definitely isn’t worth losing your license over.

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PinkKitty said...
Nov. 19, 2011 at 10:30 pm:

Good story, its good that you told the truth about drinking, but that much for refusing to take a breath test is stupid!!

 
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selenagfanVIP said...
Nov. 19, 2011 at 10:39 am:

That's kind of harsh for not just taking a breathlizer. Dang.

 
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Victoria.SVIP said...
Oct. 6, 2011 at 7:25 pm:

Overall this is a very good piece of writing. Its good that you realized that it was a bad idea in the first place. Wow what a learning experience!

 
TheGoingVIP replied...
Oct. 28, 2011 at 11:31 pm :

Cool story, interesting strory, but could have been written better... just my opinion.

 
Victoria.SVIP replied...
Oct. 29, 2011 at 5:36 pm :

NO, it was a beautiful written article. I think that you did just fine! :)

 
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lovetildeathVIP said...
Aug. 1, 2011 at 5:29 pm:

I would have been scared but you only took a swig and were under the legal limit.That sucks

 
Jacobius replied...
Sept. 14, 2011 at 12:28 pm :

I'm not sure if you realize this, but she was under 18.  The legal limit for someone under 18 is 0.0000000000.  You cannot have ANY alcohol in your system if you are under the age of 18.  The penalty probably would have been less severe if she had taken the test, though.

 
dolphinportkey7VIP replied...
Nov. 19, 2011 at 12:29 pm :

That's not actually true. They do allow for a very small amount to be in the blood of a minor- something like .0025%, very low- because of alcohol taken for religious purposes, as in the Communion Services of Catholics, for example.

 

But still, any more than a sip would put you above that.

 
FlaviusJacobiusOssummussVIP replied...
Nov. 21, 2011 at 12:10 pm :

Which was my point...

 
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RanaHewezi1998VIP said...
Jun. 18, 2011 at 5:48 pm:

awwww its good u learned not 2 do that again n i don't plan 2 drink & drive ever!

 
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yourshoes123 said...
Apr. 13, 2011 at 7:41 pm:

HEY EVERYBODY. You all need to know that she didn't get arrested because she was drinking. She got arrested because she refused to take the breathanalyzer test. If you refuse, cops have every single right to arrest you, and they will. SO NEVER EVER REFUSE THE BREATH ANALYZER. If your blood is less than .08 intoxicated (one beer) you are fine, not legally drunk, and cops can't arrest you. NEVER REFUSE BREATHANALYZER TEST. i'm telling you the truth!!!!!

 
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Fate98VIP said...
Apr. 13, 2011 at 10:36 am:

Ye how come you didn't just take the test. Also i hope you know how amazing your dad is. My mother would never let me behind a wheel again so long as i live under her roof. And she would probs make me pay the fine

 
Steph0804 replied...
Jul. 20, 2011 at 12:58 pm :

My mother would disown me - it's an Asian thing. You know, Confucius got all hyped up about family honor and spread the word until everyone from China to Korea started worshipping him.

 
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Odessa_Sterling00VIP said...
Apr. 12, 2011 at 3:53 pm:

I'm confused on one part of your story though.  If you just took one drink and let it wear off for an hour or so, then you should have been fine.  And when that cop asked you, why did you say you did, it had been like a couple hours early.  The cop could have just been checking.  They do that a lot.  One swig definately wouldn;t have affected your driving.  And why couldn't you just take the breath test.  You would have come out clean.

 
PaRaNoRmAl627VIP replied...
Apr. 13, 2011 at 5:45 am :

I agree, One swig would have worn off fairly quickly. I'm glad you learned a good lesson, but the whole situation could have been avoided if you didn't freak outt

 
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cloudskater1VIP said...
Mar. 22, 2011 at 9:31 pm:

gosh, that's really moving. thank you for posting this, i'm sure it'll change many people's outlook on drinking and driving. it definitely changed mine. i know im not going to drink and drive EVER, no matter what, for sure. also, you wrote beautifully, which brought the message out even more. great job, and i'm glad that became a learning experience for you =)

 
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TheKingVIP said...
Mar. 22, 2011 at 1:22 pm:

Good writing, I completely agree with the message you are trying to bring out, it is highly dangerous to drink and drive.

 

However, I'm finding some difficulty in finding out how you were feeling effects from such a low volume of a1cohol. Unless what you were drinking was 190 proof Everclear or Moonshine (distilled grain a1cohol), you simply would not be able to feel the effects after an hour long movie (trust me, as an asian, I have a very low a1cohol tolerance). A brea... (more »)

 
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SickImageVIP said...
Feb. 28, 2011 at 8:43 pm:

First of all, I think you write really well, but I would like to explain a couple things just for your sake so this doesn't happen again, or to anyone else. One swig doesn't even equal one shot. Honestly I don't see how any person would feel anything from one swig. Even if you did though, going and watching movies and then being driven to your car? Any kind of feeling would have completly faded. Any smell on your breath would be gone. When asked if you had been drinking you could h... (more »)

 
raindance72VIP replied...
Nov. 19, 2011 at 7:26 pm :

If she had said she wasn't drinking, of course she wouldn't have been telling the truth! She was underaged and drank alcohol that day.

At least she was honest, and because of this she was able to learn a real lesson from the situation.

 
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WelshSam said...
Feb. 6, 2011 at 7:55 am:

Really, really excellent that you feel that you need to help other people avoid this situation. This can almost be compared to the sort of people who start charities after they lose loved ones to illness or murder or kidnapping, etc.

 
WelshSam replied...
Feb. 6, 2011 at 7:58 am :

Great writing too

 
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jenniraffe said...
Jan. 15, 2011 at 6:41 pm:

i think its great that you know what you did wrong. so many people would just keep it to themselves and deny what they did.

 
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Wes H. said...
Dec. 2, 2010 at 4:42 pm:

I enjoyed how u weren't afraid to tell this experience and how u also taught a valuable lesson.  

 
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fashionluvr16 said...
Dec. 2, 2010 at 9:18 am:

wow thats such a good story. It is true, one little mistake can unravel into a big mess... one little swig can change your life. Good luck to u <3

 
knvdnvknd replied...
Oct. 6, 2011 at 12:21 pm :

 dont get why are you drinking in the first place duhhhhhhh think!!!!

 
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LastChapter said...
Oct. 20, 2010 at 5:27 pm:

that is such a horrible thing to have to happen to you! i'm glad you and your friend survived, but i wish it never happened in the first place. remember though, this emely j. chica is right. its not your fault

 
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LastChapter said...
Oct. 20, 2010 at 5:23 pm:

if it was just one swing, and you watched movies afterwards, which tend to last over 2 hours per movie, then by the time you were encountered by that cop, the alcohol would no longer be in your system. if only you had taken the breathalyzer test, none of that would've ever happened:(

 
kitkat95 replied...
Jan. 15, 2011 at 11:19 am :

that is so true but too bad she did not hink of that 

 
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missdiana said...
Oct. 14, 2010 at 12:15 pm:

arrest is one of the scariest things about being a teenager. Trust me! I also know.  I've made plenty of mistakes. (drunken driving, possesion of a controled substance, pregnancy,) but, every time, I manage to make it.

 
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burritosareawesome said...
Oct. 13, 2010 at 9:06 pm:

It did teach me a huge lesson!!!!!

 
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carmal23 said...
Oct. 13, 2010 at 8:11 pm:

I'm happy that you posted this hopefully it shows the readers what could happen over one simple mistake. Oh and I hope this taught you a HUGE lesson!

 
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burritosareawesome said...
Oct. 13, 2010 at 11:17 am:

I love the description that you put into this. It must of benn really scary to have been arrested.

 
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ilovewriting95VIP said...
Sept. 27, 2010 at 9:32 pm:

Wow! That must've been scary. What I find so outrageouse is what just one small drink did to you. At least you learned but, wow! Great Job!That was well written!

 
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Macx14 said...
Jul. 23, 2010 at 8:45 am:

Very enlightening to new drivers:D Great job!

 
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Polythene said...
Jul. 23, 2010 at 7:43 am:

wow that was great!

 
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TurtleShellTristani said...
Jul. 17, 2010 at 8:41 am:

wow. great writing. fate taught you a lesson that you can teach many other people.

 
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socrchik33 said...
Jul. 13, 2010 at 12:55 am:

my older brother just did this and finally got caught for it by the police, and i have no clue how long it has been going on for. im scared for him; he's going to court and i hav no clue what is going to happen to him. i hope he can learn a lesson like you did

 
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K9_Typical_Islander said...
Jul. 1, 2010 at 8:46 am:

I wrote an article somewhat like this, but the person actually died. The irony was that he and his family do this alcohol-free driver programs; then one night, he was cycling home then got hit by his own cousin who was drinking and driving downhill. Sometimes, lessons are learned the hard way, and other times, the person doesn't even live to learn the lesson. You were fortunate yet unfortunate simultaneously. You're piece is insightful. Thanks!! ~ though i can't drive yet, not a car.

 
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_Elsy_ said...
Jul. 1, 2010 at 7:36 am:

weird, where i live there are parties with drugs and achoal and the police know about it - i don't do any of that stuff. I think your town is more sane, and you did learn a good lesson the hard way which is sometimes the only way to get it.

 
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kksme said...
May 18, 2010 at 6:46 pm:

Someone in my town just died because of a drunk driver, it's good people are taking this seriously.

 
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charzard said...
May 18, 2010 at 6:32 pm:

wow! kinda of harsh! but you did learn a big lesson.

 
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singdancelaugh123 said...
May 13, 2010 at 5:11 pm:

wow, thats terrible. I hope your parents aren't too mad. Seems like the court kinda overreacted. Well, lets just hope it doesnt happen again. Thanks for the insight.

 
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iheartyou said...
May 2, 2010 at 6:20 pm:

wow...my friend had a party a while back and everybody was there and a lot of people were drinking one but her parents told everyone cops couldnt come on there property...well state troops could and they did and one of my friends had refused to take it and she only got ten hours of community service and thats all they did the parents didnt get in trouble at all...and last year a girl died at my school she was drinking at a football game and the princpal told her to leave since she was drinking h... (more »)

 
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sk8terboi said...
Apr. 23, 2010 at 7:31 am:

This is Awsome!!!!

Check mine out itz called Linda my first love.

 

 
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OnTheSurfaceVIP said...
Apr. 4, 2010 at 10:33 am:

i see where you went wrong, but, if you only took one swig, why didnt you just take the breathealizer test??

 
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MelonnVIP said...
Jan. 6, 2010 at 9:49 pm:

i am glad you got in that much trouble so maybe youll learn a lesson you got lucky not being in a car crash i have no sampthy for someone drunk who would have killed me or people i love

 
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xMeadowx said...
Jan. 6, 2010 at 7:39 pm:

I didn't realize there was so much punishment with just taking a swig & then driving off. To be honest, all that work would kill me, although I'm not lazy at all.

 
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Emely J. said...
Jan. 6, 2010 at 5:29 pm:

WOW...I know how you feel, trust me. I lost several friends a while ago because they were smoking some marajuana at school in the boys' batheroom. Since our classroom was right next to the bathrooms, we smelled it right away. I didn't find out right away that it was my friends who did it. And when I did, I didn't believe it . But when I saw them get arrested and driven from school in a police car...it was difficult. Just please remember that mistake is only a mistake if you haven... (more »)

 
Cutiegurl replied...
May 2, 2010 at 6:11 pm :

My friends were drinking and driving and I was in the car with them.I didnt drink,I kept telling them to stop and then.....we got into a car crash!Me and one of my 8 friends survived,but badly injured.Me and Kimm,my friend,spent 6 months in the hospital.The worst part was,I couldnt make it to their funerals.I really learned a lesson,Don't be friends with people unless they are friends with you.

 
EmelyJ replied...
May 5, 2010 at 8:02 pm :

It's good that you learned your lesson, and don't blame yourself. Everything happens for a reason. If you think about it, because you learned your lesson, you made a big impact in many lives, because now, we're one step closer to ending drunk driving. Good luck!!!

 
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