I used to want to grab ahold of everything and everyone. To make sure I could have them forever, to keep them in my hands without ever letting go. Because I guess for some reason I thought if I tired to hold onto those things and people then I will never be alone. But as I go through transformations and different situations in my life, I realize that nothing and no one can truly be yours for a life time. I finally came to terms with that idea, because that is life, people come and things come and go. No matter how much you grip and almost suffocate the people and things you want to keep does not mean they will last. And it’s okay because my hands are free now, and they are no longer tired of trying to hold onto anything or anyone.