Upon reading “Changing My Adjectives” by “Erin”, I was appalled at the very thought of a man actually abusing the girl he “loves.” I agree full heartedly that the author did the right thing and left the abusive relationship. She didn’t need to stay with someone who physically hurt her and made her feel victimized. There is no possible way I could relate to how the author felt. To be put through such a horrendous situation is unimaginable for me. Honestly I am completely surprised that a “man” could actually hurt a woman. Truly, that is not a man at all. Personally, I have never seen this at Ayersville, but if there is then that person needs help as quickly as possible.