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I need Help! BFF gone bad

peaches-le-fuzz posted this thread...
May 6, 2013 at 7:02 pm

okay so I have this friend my best friend, and she always wants to be around this guy she like, always, and she is constently insulting me and telling me how awful I am, and that she hates my face ect. she always says it's sarcastic, but lately I've been wondering if she really does hate me. Some one please help, I want want it over with. :'(

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Willflower.-.-. replied...
May 9, 2013 at 5:10 pm

(Sorry, might sound rude) Ay-yai-yai! Where have I seen this before? Take a look through the Romance section for an hour or two, you'll find your dilemma in there somewhere.

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oudeis replied...
May 12, 2013 at 11:47 pm

I know exactly what you are going through.  I had a best friend who started going out with a guy as well, and I was really hurt because she didn't pay attention to me anymore and all she cared about was being with this boy.  If she's being insulting to you in any way, I know it's easier said than done, but you have to let her go.  Any "friend" who is going to treat her best friend disrespectfully doesn't deserve your friendship.  The best thing to do is to be nice to her, but don't go out of your way to hang out with her.  If she ends up getting over this weird phase and she starts treating you better, fine, but if she doesn't, you're better off without her.  There are always other people out there waiting to meet you and become your friends.  We are so young, and the adolescent phase is the most tumultuous phase in our lifetime!  I hope that things start getting better for you, but don't get too caught up with your friend's drama.  Keep being yourself, and you'll find that things will get better!  Best of luck!

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