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christina96This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 6, 2013 at 8:17 am

I want to be a homicide investigator and a forensic scientist (like finger prints and other stuff that comes with that). I want to help solve murder cases and get those kind of people off the streets and put them where they should behind bars, if you know what I am saying/thinking. Christina96

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christina96This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 6, 2013 at 8:24 am

My situation is that I feel that my parents want me to grow up faster than I am capable of. Also, my big brother who graduating high this year in just a few short weeks and he isn't pretty much at all looking for a job like I've been told to do and that's while he sits home and does nothing important at all, really. christina96

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Battle-For-FreedomThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 6, 2013 at 10:14 pm

Well maybe they just think you're mature enough to do what they suggest.  People mature differently and they might see or think you are ready for things your older brother isn't.
 
If I go into law I'd want to either be  lawyer, or maybe a cop for like special victims, or whatever unit helps with crimes against children...something that works with live victims....
 
GOD bless you
 
~Honor

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christina96This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 10, 2013 at 8:02 am

the unit that helps crimes against children is the special victims units in the police world i'm thinking from what i watched on tv the law&order: special victims unit. that's what i am thinking but you might i have to look more into it, okay. but that is a good thing that you might want to do so i say go for it.
christina96

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Battle-For-FreedomThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 10, 2013 at 1:02 pm

Special Victims unit deals with any sex.ual assult and r*pe and it also deals with abuse victims 11 and younger. (I looked it up.) So if I decide to be a cop, that's the unit I'd want to be in becuase I want to help people who are alive....
Though I am mor einterested in going into the Mrines for law, special ops, something like those....

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Battle-For-FreedomThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 10, 2013 at 1:04 pm

Special Victims Unit deals with any crime having to do with ra.pe or se.xual assualt.  It also deals with abuse victims 11 years old and younger according to to the website I was on. That's what unit I'd want to be in if I became a cop, though I still really want to be in Marine Corps Special Ops, or in the Marine Corps JAG or something like that.

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christina96This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 11, 2013 at 11:01 am

That's cool but a tip for you don't believe everything you read on a website. Because everything may or may not be true.
But really that is cool what you want to do for your career we need to communicate online more about crime and criminal law careers because we seem to nkow a lot more than most people my age and don't know how old you are.
How old are you by the way, battle-for-field?

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Crane replied...
Jul. 6, 2013 at 2:38 am

Ok I'm not adopted but a frend of mine is. At first he had some ishoses back wen he was 8 but now he is the best guy I know he's amazing! But my ex teacher has been in the proses of adopting a kid for years and is now in the time where she fosters a little boy befor he can legly be adopted. I was just wandering if you have any advice on how to deal, with his temper tantroms and how I can be suportive of him. It's been a wile since I've had to cox somone out of there shell

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christina96This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jul. 9, 2013 at 11:01 am

That is cool that you want to do that kind of thing in the law enforcement but I suggest that you mentally prepare yourself when you are going to school or where ever you go to learn more about it. Also,you may not get a job opening right away you do graduate college after getting the certification for this kind of job; so be patient and that I am very sure that it'll pay off in the end when the time comes for it to happen.
good luck,
christina96

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christina96This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jul. 9, 2013 at 11:08 am

You have a lot of good things that you want to do to help the world, so keep going on making goals for yourself because in the end you never know if it will pay off because things that people want to go their way doesn't always happen. So, keep it up and see what happens. But also, keep me posted on what you think on what you want to do in the law enforcement area because I need so ideas and I think you are a good person from what you write is good person to ask.
So, again keep posting and please help me on the idea part and I'll definite appreciate a lot.
Thanks if you can and keep it up,
christina96

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christina96This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jul. 9, 2013 at 11:10 am

Yeah, let's together make another thread to find other people who are interested in this area for a career and also to get more information on this career area that we may not know about.
Let's do it,
christina96

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christina96This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jul. 9, 2013 at 11:23 am

WOW! That's a big thing to give advice on.
But the advice I can give you is talk to him find out things that he likes and activities as well. If he has trouble interacting with others around him maybe you can do something that might make him feel more comfortable and more happy I guess you can say because he may not know his biological parents and he may not understand the reasons that some kids like and me were adopted but trying to understand him maybe very helpful to you and his temper tantrums may be caused something called PTSD or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder depending on what happened to him when he was younger whether he was adpoted right from birth or not that can still be developed without not knowing his real parents.
So yeah, try to talk to him and learn about him because amybe if tries to talk to someone that he is close to or knows then he might open up and let out some anger that might be inside him.
As well as for the teacher I can't really say much because I have never been in the process of adopting a child but all I can say about that situation is tell that teacher to keeping trying and never give up hope and to never give up trying because there is child out there needs to have a better home and loving family to give that child what he or she may need.
That's all I can say. So, tell me how the advice I gave you for your friend works out and reply back to me so I know if there is anything else I can do.
christina96

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