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I want to be heard but i don't want to talk...help me please

MinaDeOro posted this thread...
Aug. 10, 2012 at 10:39 pm

... I don't know where to start. i don't get along with anybody from my family. nobody talks to eachother. my brother doesnt live with us anymore. my big sister and i are always fighting. she has always hated me. even she has said it.... its like if my mom isnt even home, ever. she doesnt talk to us. i talk to her and we end up crying. i dont like seeing her cry. the only person i talk to is my sister that is on her way to college. but she''s dorming and i wont see her anymore

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DynamoThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 11, 2012 at 10:00 am

I think the situation is very sad. Many families split up over petty problems, not realizing the pain they cause each other. I wish you the best of luck and hope that you will finally find a way out of your problems.:(
 

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TheaterGirlThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 11, 2012 at 11:12 am

try talking about possibly going to family counseling it has worked with my friends families and might help with yours and u should never blame urself

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MinaDeOro replied...
Aug. 11, 2012 at 3:12 pm

yea. : thank you (:

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MinaDeOro replied...
Aug. 11, 2012 at 3:13 pm

i tried but my dad doesnt want to and my mom just wont participate :|

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DynamoThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 12, 2012 at 6:41 am

Ask a psychotherapist to pay a surprise visit when all are at home, they won't be able to dodge him then

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MinaDeOro replied...
Aug. 12, 2012 at 11:01 am

okay.. i will... thank you

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DynamoThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 12, 2012 at 2:05 pm

No problem:)

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TheaterGirlThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 12, 2012 at 2:31 pm

Ya i totally agree with Dynamo. Srry my way didnt work also if u are still having problems when school starts talk to the guidance counselor

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MinaDeOro replied...
Aug. 13, 2012 at 12:05 am

its okay theater girl... and ive done that. they just dont really care :

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TheaterGirlThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 13, 2012 at 7:21 pm

wow, well tht just goes to show how sh.ity the schools are, well do you have OLDER siblings

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MinaDeOro replied...
Aug. 13, 2012 at 8:18 pm

yes but they dont want to know anything about the "family" anymore .. they have their own life now

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DynamoThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 14, 2012 at 12:55 pm

 
That obviously is what we must strive against. Your siblings aren't supportive, your family is ready to break up...I think you can do best by persuading at least one member to back you up...not that it would be of much help, but you must get them to know how it's like for you. Perhaps that might knock some sense in them(sorry, I just get angry when someone's family does that)
 
And school counsellors don't give a dam.n hoot to your problems. They have about as much charm and role as a dead slug.
 
If ranting about it can help ease your burden, just go ahead. Create a private thread, requesting no one to enter(I assure you, they won't) Then you can do what you iike to release the pressure. Perhaps you can also delete them afterwards.

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TheaterGirlThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 14, 2012 at 4:50 pm

i totally agree with D. Also see if any of your extended family will help, or a close friends parents tht ur comfortable with

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TheaterGirlThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 14, 2012 at 4:50 pm

i totally agree with D. Also see if any of your extended family will help, or a close friends parents tht ur comfortable with

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TheaterGirlThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 14, 2012 at 4:50 pm

i totally agree with D. Also see if any of your extended family will help, or a close friends parents tht ur comfortable with

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MinaDeOro replied...
Aug. 14, 2012 at 11:46 pm

okay.. sounds like the best thing to do. i will. thank you both ':}

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DynamoThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 15, 2012 at 8:45 am

No problem:)

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TheaterGirlThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 17, 2012 at 7:25 pm

your welcome let us know

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hopiehope replied...
Sept. 29, 2012 at 10:10 pm

THe only advice that i can give you is that you have to get ready to start your own life. I hate to say this but I doubt your family is going to come around. The rest of your family to me isnt even trying to fix their problems so your just gonna have to do like the rest of your siblings and just start your own life. Hope I helped

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