so what should you do if you want to date someone but all the guys you know are perverts?
I think most guys contain some level of perversion, so I believe you should keep that in mind when searching. But anyway, if they're really that perverted (they're probably not, honestly; you've got no idea), then perhaps you should simply broaden your horizons. Expand out from your current circle of friends and try to meet different types of guys. Perhaps a shy guy's better for you, or someone... preppier? Just remember not to give up, no matter how annoying and stressful it may be.
But, hey, what do I know, right? I hope I helped anyway.
I disagree with Nick, I myself am not a pervert, there are guys that are not perverts. You just got to look a little bit harder, and don't date the perverts, most likely they will push you into a situation unwanted, if you know what I mean.
Well, most guys I know are perverts. Sure, some aren't. I like to think I'm not, or at least not around girls. Sometimes I slip, but it's only when they basically invite me to do so. Anyway... not important. Yeah, just keep looking.
you did:) but, ive dated a variety of guys already, and im no saying im a player, but ive dated the bad boys and the nerdy guys, and the weird crazy guys too. so i just dont know what to do..
yeah i do know what you mean, but im a strong-headed girl and can be very stubborn when i want to. no way, they wouldnt get nothin out of me!
All I can say from a girl's point of veiw is to not date someone because they are there. If you are despratly waiting for Prince Charming to come along and sweep you off your feet... chances are he's already there. Talk to guys and make friends, then if you like them more than friends, break those socail standards and ask him out yourself. Go ahead and meet boys, but don't date them if all you want is a boyfriend.
About guys being perverted: don't date them if you are uncomfortable around them. Try to get to know them, but if you can't find anything you like, there is nothing saying that you have to be around them all the time :)
Hope I helped :)
Sorry I don't really have any advice, seeing as I am currently not in a relationship, nor do I want to be any time soon, but NickM, I don't know who you hang out with, but no girl invites you to be perverted. Sorry. But it's true. I was dating a guy, but broke up with him because he was nasty and I couldn't deal with how perverted he was. Just so you know.
seems like a good reason to break up with him :)
Not exactly invite... But whatever. The details of how my social interactions go are irrelevant. And besides, I'm inexperienced. Moving on.