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Ugh... I hate drama. Why did I get sucked into this?

CrashBagPhoto posted this thread...
Dec. 17, 2013 at 11:03 am

Okay, if you don't feel like reading drama, then click out of this thread. Then probably out of this forum, but.... Anyways. So in sixty grade (I'm now in eighth) I liked this guy. He liked me and we started "dating," which back then ment hanging at recess. In seventh grade, we began pulling apart. Admittedly that was sort of my fault because I'd relized I am bi, and I felt like I was lying to him even though I wasn't really. He broke up with me and I was like: yea okay, that's fine. But I was mad because he lied to my face and gave some silly excuse when he really just liked another girl and asked her out the next day. Fast forward till last month.... One of my friends and I were talking and she said that the other girl who he'd started dating right after me, for now I will call her J, was mad at me. I was all "whaaaa?" my friend said that J had made the boy, who I'll call D for ease right now, break up with me. J thought Id made D break up with her out of spite. For starters, this was a few months late and it was a seventh grade relationship. I never expected D to be the one. Fast forward to now. D has been really depressed and was trying to get together with one of my friends (entirely new girl, by the way.) I am still his friend so I was helping him out. Then by a long series of events I don't feel like getting into, he said he likes me. Holy crap. So he wants to get back with me, only after hearing about his feelings for my friend, I can't believe I'm actually his first choice, but I guess I am. So my problem... I have no self esteem. I told him I am bi so I don't feel bad about that anymore. But, I can't believe him. He sounded so happy talking about that other girl... I can't believe that he feels more about me... What should I do? How can I believe him? because trust me, I want to.

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 23, 2013 at 1:38 am

Don't go for it. Tell him he had his chances with you and he sccrewed it up and he doesn't deserve you again. That's what I would do. Or if you want to be a b****, which i don't exactly encourage, but whatever, you could go out with him to piss off J. Whatever you choose, I think those are your options. Though you may phrase it differently, that's basically what's going to happen.

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maleenaj replied...
Dec. 24, 2013 at 6:20 pm

your in 8th grade foucs on your education not a boy who left you for another girl  hun work on yourself before jumping into a relatinship  you can still be friends but dont worry about boy drama

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GreekGoddess replied...
Dec. 26, 2013 at 2:03 pm

I completly agree with maleenaj. Trust me, is D is bouncing around that easily, it means he really wants to have a girlfriend not a parterner. Wait an entire month. If you still like him and he likes you, then go for it. If he has moved on in that month, then you move on too because he simply wants a girlfriend not you.

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Peacemakerz replied...
Dec. 30, 2013 at 11:22 am

People who bouce like that are gonna keep bouncing, I completely agree with both comments up there. I think yo ushould wait it up and if you don't like him anymore don't do it.  Try not to have any harsh feelings towards him, because he might not be fully mature. Any way, as they say there are other fish in the sea. Just keep swimming!

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