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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 18, 2013 at 7:59 pm

How was i friend zoned?

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Peaches08 replied...
Dec. 18, 2013 at 9:02 pm

Well is she dating someone?

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 19, 2013 at 11:18 am

Marie: Because you said you didn't know if you loved him or your friendship. You were really close friends, so I guess what I thought was that you really didn't have feelings for him because you were close friends.

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 19, 2013 at 11:19 am

Peach: No she is not dating, and she's never been in a relationship. I've never been in a relationship either.

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 20, 2013 at 3:53 pm

I guess that makes sence I guess? LOL but you shouldn't stay home for college just because there's  a girl there that you like. Long tem relationships can be hard, but you should be able to go wherever you want to go for college. Tecnology is getting better and better every day, so it will be easier to talk to her than it might be to go to college somewhere you dont want to go jusy to be with her. It's not the only way or the best way to be with her, but it's not the worst. I guess it's just something to think about. talk to her about it and she might have something to say about it.

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 20, 2013 at 4:03 pm

Well, She doesn't even know I like her so it's kind've hard to take to her about those things, plus, I don't see her often, maybe once every 3 months, I get my drivers' license in the spring so I'll be able to go to Sabbath there more often. Also, that's not the only reason I'm also doing it because I live right next to a university and if i stay home I won't have much if any college loans. I am going for a 4 year degree so I probably will still have about 3,000-6,000 to owe, but not bad. But yes she is the primary reason that I would stay home for college. Soon I will be moving, and where I am moving is 30 minutes closer to her and the Sabbath group she goes to, so that will help as well.

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 23, 2013 at 1:01 am

Well you definantly need to tell her how you feel. But try to ease into it. It can be overwelming for someone to tell you they like you, let alone an older boy. Kind of really off topic but is it just my town, or have people been exausted lately? And maybe it's just because of my age, or whatever, but I am always tired lately no matter how much sleep I get. It's getting really old really fast. ;) Merry Almost Christmas!!!

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 23, 2013 at 12:13 pm

Ok, so, this is my plan as of now. Next time I see her, I'm going to ask her if we can trade phone numbers. Then I will get to know her, allow her to get to know me better as well, then the next time I see her in person tell her I like her.
 
and as for your off topic statement, but I have been feeling a lot more exhauseted lately. And you live in CA, I'm in MN and it gets darker way sooner than there. and it's way colder here too:p. And every year you get older the more tired you get, that's why older people take naps;). And I don't celebrate Christmas:) But hey! the days are getting longer now!!:):):)

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 23, 2013 at 9:16 pm

LOL but how did you know I live in CA? Stalker much? :) JKJK

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 23, 2013 at 11:24 pm

hmm..well..You kind've out it on your profile;) and you didn't respond to the first half of my post..

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 25, 2013 at 3:42 pm

I do? Huh. Didn't realize. :) But I thnk that is a very god idea' but you should woow her. IDK if I even spelled that right, but you know what I mean. Like give her flowers or chocolate or something when you tell her you like her.

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 25, 2013 at 5:58 pm

Yes, but im not asking her out thats my problem. Ive never met her dad and i would have to talk to him first, and the only way to do that is througj her. Maybe i tell her then if she feels the same talk about it. Idk, tough call. Another thing, doesnt giving her something right off the bat make it look like im desperate?

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AMarieB replied...
Jan. 3 at 2:38 am

Maybe not desperate, but desprately romantic? Maybe it's cheesy, but girls love that kind of stuff. Just outing it isn't nearly as glamorous, is it? LOL and sorry I haven't been online for a while. Christmas and family have made sure I am kept busy. By the way, I might have a problem. I don't know if it's stupid or just a phase, but I think I love this guy I know. I could use the advice!

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jan. 3 at 11:42 am

I'll think about it, still haven't seen her. And as far as your guy, lay it out for me and I can give you some advice.

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AMarieB replied...
Jan. 4 at 12:49 am

Well, I liked him a while ago. Like really liked him. I thought I was way over him a while ago, but it turns out I'm still crazy about him. And like I said, I think I love him. The problem is that he has a girlfriend. And he's not exactly my age. He's a couple years older than I am. He thinks of me like a little sister, I think, but it's kind of complicated because he always says stuff like his girlfriend is so boring, and I'm so much more intresting than her blah blah blah. But then he goes and asks her to formal all romantically and also says stuff like he only needs to see her to feel better and stuff and it breaks my heart. The last time I liked him, it didn't go very well and I kind of was left to myself. He's amazing and it's just that I'm like waaaaaay nieve when it comess to guys and I don't know if I should give up and get over him, or what. I'm just so confused.

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jan. 4 at 2:28 am

Alright, this is what i think, i think he likes you. To me it seems like he is trying to get a reaction from you to see if you like him. Hang in there, i think that if you show him you like him then he'll come around, it's also hard for a guy to admit he likes someone younger than him....like it was hard to tell my parents i like a girl that is 3 years younger than me, so yea i think if you hang in there it should work out:)

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AMarieB replied...
Jan. 5 at 12:44 am

Idk. Life is so complicated, or wills me to make it more complicated than it needs to be. I don't really want to be in a relationship right now, but knowing that someone cares about me like that seems........... undeniably relaxing. I wouldn't be the first to say that I don't love the way I look, if you know what I mean. I don't think I need a guy to tell me I'm beautiful, it's just that it doens't hurt to hear it. :) The whole situation itself is confusing because if I say the wrong thing, it could ruin our friendship. He is really special to me and I don't want to lose him. And wait. How did this become about me? I thought I was supposed to be giving you advice on how to get your 'dream girl.' LOL

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jan. 5 at 1:40 am

I don't think she is just a dream, i think it can become real, it's not out of reach:). You have self-confidence that's good, as far as saying the wrong thing i love this quote: "broken hearts don't come from what is said, but what isn't said." I take it as if you never say anything he will move on.

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AMarieB replied...
Jan. 5 at 5:12 pm

LOL I meant that she's your 'perfect girl' so to speak. And I can't really say anything to him. Not only am I two years younger than him, but he still obviously has feelings for this other girl. I don't want to do anything to ruin our friendship, but there's a part of me that want's to tell him. I'm just so confused about it all. And in my personal opinion, the worst heartbreaks are  when you get friend zoned after laying your heart on the line. No offense to your quote. :)

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