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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. posted this thread...
Dec. 13, 2013 at 5:26 pm

So I really like this 13-year-old girl, she has all the qualities in a girl I have been looking for, I am 16, How should I go about this? Should I court her, or leave it alone? Thanks:)

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 13, 2013 at 5:27 pm

I meant to say should I think about courting her.

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.AMB. replied...
Dec. 14, 2013 at 8:47 pm

Oh. Well me being a thirteen year old girl, i can see how this might be weird for you. I think you should try to see if she likes you before you rush into anything, but also if anything does happen, dont move her too fast. Realize she's thirteen and go how fast she wants to go. And dont let her do anything that she will regret. I had feelings for a boy two years older than me, and i was more mature than he was. I think its a god idea to date her, just be very aware of boundries and her space. girls mature faster than boys on average, so she is probably around your maturity level.

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 14, 2013 at 9:02 pm

AMB: (What does AMB stand for?) thank you:) Since I am older than her I plan on staying home for college to allow her to get a little bit older. And yes, I think she is actually slightly more mature than me..being she's the oldest of her sibilings, and her home life..anyways..I have no intentions of moving too fast, I haven't been in a relationship in my life because I am waiting for someone who I think I could actually spend the rest of my life with, it's not a game to me. And I know what you mean by not letting her do anything she regrets..I have no intentions of doing anything until marriage. thank you very much:)

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.AMB. replied...
Dec. 15, 2013 at 10:15 pm

And by the way, it's my initials. I dont want to give too much of my private information away on the internet. LOL you never know who might come looking for you. :)

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.AMB. replied...
Dec. 15, 2013 at 10:16 pm

So how do you know this girl?

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 15, 2013 at 10:21 pm

ohhh, i didn't know that haha, I wouldn't ask for it then:p.
 
I met her at the Feast of Tabernacles(a Biblical holiday) and she is the daughter of the cook. I intially didn't like her, but then I got to know her..and well it started out as a crush, then a few days went by(this is an 8 day holiday) and I started really liking her..that's how:) and did your first post get ate by the filter?

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.AMB. replied...
Dec. 15, 2013 at 10:37 pm

Sure? LOL but it sounds like you guys have something special. your a guy right? Can I ask you for some advice?

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 15, 2013 at 11:31 pm

yes, i am a guy:p hence my screen name;) i would be happy to help:)

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 15, 2013 at 11:59 pm

Oh ya. Hahaha umm.... Well there's this guy like, but I don't know exactly know how to like do any thing about it. He just broke up with his girlfriend, and I don't know if he's flirting with me or is just being him because he's so...... isolated you could say. He didn't really say anything about his relationship with the girl except that he's getting over her. What do I do?

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 16, 2013 at 12:00 am

Oh i changed my screen name. It's still AMB.

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 16, 2013 at 12:27 am

well, I would act soon before it's too late. Guys can tell when a girl likes them(most of the time) and if he notices that you like him, and you dont make a move, he wont even think twice about moving on from you too. so if you think there is a good chance that he likes you, and he just got over a relationship, i would aay act ass oon as possible:) but do it casually not agressively or you'll be seen as desperate. there is two things why he would say no, either a) he just doesnt like you or b) hes embarresed that a girl asked him out feeling like his job as a man was taken away. thats what i think:) and your name did change:)

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 16, 2013 at 12:28 am

well, I would act soon before it's too late. Guys can tell when a girl likes them(most of the time) and if he notices that you like him, and you dont make a move, he wont even think twice about moving on from you too. so if you think there is a good chance that he likes you, and he just got over a relationship, i would aay act as oon as possible:) but do it casually not agressively or you'll be seen as desperate. there is two things why he would say no, either a) he just doesnt like you or b) hes embarresed that a girl asked him out feeling like his job as a man was taken away. thats what i think:) and your name did change:)

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 16, 2013 at 6:38 pm

Well i kind of have this rule thing. like i dont
1)Ask out guys
2)Like guys shorter than me
3)Like guys younger than me
4)Or like more than one guy at a time
I dont know why. It's just things I live by. I am already breaking one of my rules because i kindof still have feelings for my ex. I t's kind of crazy and all of my friends tell me I'm weird for it, but whatever.

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 16, 2013 at 6:39 pm

And I changed it because I love my middle name and I got bored of AMB. Not much color to it. :)

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 16, 2013 at 6:42 pm

BTW are you hebrew?

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 16, 2013 at 8:13 pm

I love the name Marie:). and those sound like good rules to live by:) although, I can see why you don't like guys younger than you being the maturity difference, which is why guys like younger girls. And I don't like more than one girl at a time, mainly because I find someone special and  don't think anyone else compares to them.If you still have feelings for your ex I wouldn't get involved with another guy right now, there would be committment issues there(or do you date just to date?) and woah, you're the first person to ask if I'm Hebrew instead of Jewish!! I'm Messianic, meaning I believe the whole Bible from front to back, so I believe Jesus(I call Him Yahshua) is the Messiah, and I keep the "Old Testament" "laws" and feast days, but not sacrifices.
 
Shalom Aleichem!

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 18, 2013 at 9:06 am

So your........ not hebrew? LOL no I dont date guys just to date them. Hahaha But my problem is that I dont know if I ever had feelings for my ex because we were really close friends before we dated. I don't know if I loved him or our friendship.

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 18, 2013 at 10:00 am

And thank you for the compliment. Ya I like Marie more than my first name.

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 18, 2013 at 10:13 am

no I'm not Hebrew. and sounds like you where "friend zoned" by accident. that's a tough one, and love is a strong word, it's hard to really love someone. The reason i asked about dating just to date is because a lot of teenagers seem to have that mindset of it being a game, that's all:)

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