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SarahG.This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. posted this thread...
Dec. 12, 2013 at 1:50 pm

I really like this girl who is also my friend.  I've already tried asking her out and she said no. We are friends at the moment but I still really like her.  I'm wondering if you guys have any suggestions on either how to get over her or what to do.  Thanks.

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wise-kid240 replied...
Dec. 12, 2013 at 5:29 pm

sarah ,i am not goin to lie and say that i am not in the situtation that your are currently in. i had the same problem just like you, at first it was hard for me to get over him but then after a few talks with my friend and a few ice creams  i got over him.what my freinds did was that they distracted me .they made me forget about the whole crush trouble. so i dont know if this might help but it is whta got me throught my boy troble. kepp your self busy get distracted dont think about the person at all.pretend it never happened.hang out with your friends ALOT they might help you get your mind off of the girl.

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SarahG.This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 12, 2013 at 5:53 pm

The thing is though this girl is one of my friends I hang out with and we have school and 2 youth groups together so it's kind of unavoidable that I see her and when I see her I just remeamber that I have a huge crush on her.

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 16, 2013 at 7:12 pm

I am kind of in your situation. I still have feelings for my ex and I'm trying to get over him. I think a good way to do that is to kind of try to find someone else. Honestly, let yourself fall in love with someone else, and it will help you to get over her. Trust me.

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SarahG.This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 18, 2013 at 8:48 am

Okay it's not love though it's a stupid crush that I can't get over only because I'm forever alone.  The thing is though I do not want to fall in love.  No offense but I never have been in love and I don't  want to be right now. 

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AMarieB replied...
Dec. 18, 2013 at 9:38 am

Well for a while your going to be alone. Sorry if I''m too blunt, but it's true. Your not going to have your "perfect match" around you. You just have to wait and be patient and your heart will grow for that person that deserves it that is probably thinking the same thing you are.

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SarahG.This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 18, 2013 at 3:05 pm

Believe me you are not being to blunt at all I'm just not exactly a believer in love.

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Peaches08 replied...
Dec. 18, 2013 at 9:44 pm

wait, so your a girl right? and how old are you?

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SarahG.This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 19, 2013 at 5:11 pm

Yes and 14 why?

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luckiicloverxx replied...
Dec. 21, 2013 at 9:12 am

Try to stay away from her for a while. I mean, if you're around her all the time, it's not going to help. And if you can't avoid her, then maybe tell her that you need some distance to get over her? 

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SarahG.This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 22, 2013 at 12:08 am

Well the thing is she thinks I'm over her and I don't want her to know that I still like her.

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LovelyRee replied...
Dec. 22, 2013 at 5:11 am

I don't know what it feels like to be in that kind of situation but I hope this helps. If you like her so much but you still treasure your friendship, try keeping a distance for a while but don't make it last forever. Eventually, your crush would go away but I warn you now, you might be the one to get more damage then your crush is. Protect your heart, you're still so young and I'm only 16. If your friendship matters, overlook your crush, if it doesn't go away, talk to her about it. It never hurts to try right?

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SarahG.This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 22, 2013 at 5:49 am

Right but as I said before I don't  really have a way to keep distance.  I mean with school and the youth groups we're around each other alot.  Also I don't think my heart can get damaged after all I doubt if it even exists.

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LovelyRee replied...
Dec. 22, 2013 at 6:17 pm

Don't doubt it, I'm pretty sure you know what it feels like already. If you can't keep find distance find closure. I know you don't want her to know but you'll never get anywhere if you hide it. 

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SarahG.This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 22, 2013 at 6:28 pm

She knows I liked her but she thinks I'm over her.

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GreekGoddessThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 26, 2013 at 2:10 pm

I've been in this situation except as the third wheel. My two friends: well lets just say for the past two or three years the guy has had a crush on the girl and he keeps asking me for advice. I've talked to the girl too, she really doesn't feel that way about him. My advice is to either talk to her instead of trying to botte it up or if you aren't cofortable with that, give yourself some space and try to meet other girls.

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SarahG.This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 26, 2013 at 8:46 pm

I don't want to meet anyone else though I don't even even want to date or anything and space isn't  exactly easy with school and youth groups and having a lot of mutual friends we're kinda around each other alot.    I also can't talk to her about it because I don't want her to know that I still feel like this.  Aldo as far as she knows I'm over her and it just would make everything horrible if I told her.
 

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