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NDewayne posted this thread...
Dec. 10, 2013 at 10:22 am

Does anyone here have anyone special? I mean, reallly special. Someone that you love, adore, would even give up your life for? Are they just a fantasy of yours, wishing that it could be more? Are they the one that you would love until death, or are you not sure? If you are sure, how do you know? Tell me, because I want to know if the feelings I have are things that other people feel too.

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Mr.packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 10, 2013 at 11:41 am

"Does anyone here have anyone special? I mean, reallly special."
 
Yes, I met her in September at the Feast of Tabernacles, she seems like the girl I have been waiting for my whole life, everything i ever wanted in a girl, she fits, unlike the other crushes I've had.
 
"Someone that you love, adore, would even give up your life for?"
 
Yes, I would give up my life for her, although I would give up my life for just about anyone because i believe that my life is not most important, it is the lives of others that matter. I do love her very much, and I think she is very beautiful as well.
 
"Are they just a fantasy of yours, wishing that it could be more?"
 
I sure hope it's not just a fantasy, but I'm pretty sure this one will work out, I've never been in a relationship before(I'm 16.5 and in 11th grade) and she is(13 and in 8th grade) younger than me yes, but I am staying home for college, I think courting will be starting within the next year, but I have to keep from being friend zoned.
 
"Are they the one that you would love until death, or are you not sure? If you are sure, how do you know?"
 
I would love her until death, I know this because she is someone that is very mature in everything she does, she's as mature as an 18-year-old. She defends me, and stands up for what is right, she helps her family, and she's a wonderful sister to her siblings(she's the oldest). She shows great leadership and responsibility and respect, and most of all she believes the same as me, if she stayed like this,  I would have no problem living the rest of of my life with her.
 
"Tell me, because I want to know if the feelings I have are things that other people feel too."
 
Everyone sees things in a different light, and has different feelings and reasoning for the answers to these questions, that's what makes us unique we are all different, and is your real name Dewayne? my dad's is Dwayne..well that's his middle name that he goes by..
 
YHWH Bless You!:)
~PB:)
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NDewayne replied...
Dec. 10, 2013 at 1:44 pm

She must be very special :)
I have someone like that as well, she means a lot to me, and I love her a lot.

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SomethingLikeFireThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 10, 2013 at 6:03 pm

I'm not sure if its love but i defnately like him more then just a friend. He's more like my best friend that i happen to snuggle with when we hang out. We're the same in a lot of regards and complete oppisites in others. 

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NDewayne replied...
Dec. 11, 2013 at 10:42 am

That is an interesting situation. You must like each other a lot :)

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zombieslayer22 replied...
Dec. 11, 2013 at 1:25 pm

my gummy never had someone who works my nerves and makes me go crazy and wanna just hug him tight all at once hes amazing to me he picks me random flowers an stays with me thru our ups and downs
i think i would love him to the end hes different more sincere  we agreed we wanna grow old together
id lay my life down with no hesitation for anyone as long as they get to enjoy their life cause ive lived mine
hes not fantasy thank goodness but hes like perfect its crazy hes like that bf most girls dream of he has everything in common with me we think the same if i had an opposite it would be him
i think the things u feel are felt by alot of people just depending on person
 

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NDewayne replied...
Dec. 16, 2013 at 10:51 am

That is great :-D It is reallly special to have someone like that in your life. I happy that other people feel like that too! I hope everyone gets to have that feeling one day. :)

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NickM2.0 replied...
Dec. 18, 2013 at 7:32 pm

I have someone I like, sure. She's a wonderful person. She's nice, smart, funny, and one of the prettiest people I've ever seen. Too bad we had a falling out over something I did that I don't know what it was. I tried to make it better but I think, at this point, I'll just let it heal on its own. Maybe if I don't do anything stupid she'll actually talk to me again... ANYWAY.
 
I don't think I'd give up my life for her; however, there's not a whole lot I wouldn't do to make her happy. Her smile is bewitching. I can't answer the love ones because I don't believe I'm in love (Love in middle school isn't really a thing, anyway, I think), although I don't see myself not liking her anytime soon.

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NDewayne replied...
Dec. 19, 2013 at 7:54 am

That seems reasonable that you don't know if your in love because you are in middle school. I'm a high school student, and 

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NDewayne replied...
Dec. 19, 2013 at 7:59 am

I didn't finish my post... anyway, I am halfway through my junior year. Sorry that you had some trouble with her. I hope everything will turn out ok :)

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NickM2.0 replied...
Dec. 19, 2013 at 8:15 am

Why, thank you for understanding, my friend! And I hope so too...

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NickM2.0 replied...
Dec. 19, 2013 at 4:53 pm

Oh, also, I'm not sure about it being more. I intend to get her to at least tell me what I did wrong before New Year's, and if I find that out, maybe I'll figure out what to do, if anything. And it could've been a thing last year; I have reiable sources. But whatevs.

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sdawgThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 20, 2013 at 11:19 am

being 17 i know a bit about love. one thing i know a about love is that if you have it it can be the best feeling ever. another thing is that love stinks because if you love too hard or too much you have a greater chance at getting hurt like i did with my ex. i love to easily and freely so this is an easy way to get kicked in the face by love. so as you can tell there are many sides to the emothion they call love and it is wonderful if you are able to find even in junior high. somethimes its easier to fall in love in junior high than it is high school trust me i should know high school love sucks. and other times its best to fall off a bridge than to fall in love because falling off a bridge hurts less
 

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FraGiLe replied...
Dec. 23, 2013 at 7:52 pm

Still trying to find that someone special..
 

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Torrey replied...
Jan. 7 at 1:33 pm

I am also looking for that someone special. If you look at the thread I posted about boy trouble, you can probably tell that he was the guy I thought was the one. But now I'm facing some a big change and he likes my best friend, so now, all my relationships are in my head.

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NDewayne replied...
Jan. 9 at 8:23 am

Thank you all for the replies. I hope everyone can find someone that makes them feel special :)

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NDewayne replied...
Jan. 9 at 8:27 am

Also to s-dawg: I hope that you can have something that can not have love as a negitive thing. It will get better, trust me. :)

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NDewayne replied...
Jan. 16 at 8:03 am

Anyone else?
 

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Firelover replied...
Jan. 16 at 11:16 am

Mmmmm... Me :) I have a guy in my life that I think I would do anything for. Sadly I never see him, cuz he don't live where I do.... But I think if I were to see him I'd cry, scream and hug him. All at the same time. He doesn't like me as I do him but as long as he's happy... I'm happy :)

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Tara_BitesThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jan. 29 at 11:22 am

Well... I used to have someone where I would give my life for him. And I almost did. But for the wrong reason. My best friend and i had a crush on him at the same time and when I started dating him, that's when our friendship just kind of... broke. But he was someone I could talk to, even if he didn't say anything. I could talk to him for hours on end. Every morning, the first thing I would do was call him and say good morning. People at our school thought we were the cutest couple and that we would be together forever. But then my friend, let's call her Cheyenne, she wanted me to break up with him, who's name is Christopher, and when I wouldn't do it, she would tell me things that made me angry and that made Chris think that I wanted to break up. But then other bad stuff started to happen and then we broke up offically. Now would I say that I'd give up my life for anyone? Yes. I would. Because I'm not scared of love. No one should be scared of love. It's just something that can make you the happiest person in the world, or it can just lead you to that Prince Charming you've always been waiting for. And to let you in on a little secret, I still love him. He's been my one and only since the day I met him.

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