I absolutely love my boyfriend (lets call him bob) but lately he never text me back or msgs me on fb except for a random msg tht says "Sry I haven't talked to you in a little bit but my Internet hasn't been working and I love you" from june 2nd or "love you sry we haven't talk in a long time" from june 11th
then on thrusday he is on has been for as long as have but ididnt notic until i checked my msgs tht he was on.... so i msged and said hey babe.... 10 minutes go by....... 20 minutes go by.... then he sees it and logs off
but a couple days ago i started tlkin to my friend (lets call him Scott) and we have been tlking nonstop since then and now it seems like Scott is more like my boyfriend to me than Bob
WHAT DO I DO? Do i dump Bob and go out with Scott or stay with Bob? Because I know I'm falling for Scott but I love Bob
OMIGAWD please help
well, if bob ignores you hes not worth it. don't be in a relationship with a guy who won't talk to you. As a guy, I give a girl all my attention. I will listen to her and talk to her and be her friend, too. My advice is be with the one who is willing to pay attention
I agree with DonkeyKong. If he doesn't pay attention to you, talk to him. Tell him how your feeling and that if he doesn't pay attention to you, your going to leave him. Don't tell him about Scott though. Not only will it break his heart, but he will try to find this guy who took "his girl" if you know what im saying. I was going out with this boy and i broke up with him because he wasn't paying attention to me and also because i had feelings for another guy. I didn't tell him, and i think it would just be a bad idea if you did.
If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one you wouldnt have fallen for the second.
~ Johnny Depp
I've been Bob in this situation.... maybe he has a reason for the way hes being, you never know
Do you see him in person or give him calls? I would talk to him and lay it out; you feel like he's being distant and you guys don't talk anymore, and it is upsetting you. See what is up with him. Do you still feel the same when you are with him as you did when you first fell in love? If not, you should probably move on. But I would suggest taking some time before dating Scott if you plan to, just so he's not a rebound, and you can sort stuff out.
thanks everyone.......... ok so 6 weeks after me and Bob started goin out, he moved to Geogia...... and yes i did know him in person........ i had known him for two yrs bfore we dated....... then his ex (Sara) calls me gloating about how he no longer liked me, how he had never loved me but i told Sara tht she was lying.......... well then he texted me a week after tht phone call and told me tht he was dumpin me for some Geogria peach....... then the very next day my best friend (Hope) calls me to let me vent abt being dumped in such a cruel way, to let me kno tht Bob called her and told her tht he was moving back to kentucky but she wasnt supposed to tell me............ hope told me because she thought i already knew...... this all happened in the week of June.(was dumped June 29th)...then i was tlking to Scott about it on July 3rd and he didnt ask me out.... He claimed me.... i mean he told me "You are mine now, babygirl" I meant to wait because i still kinda loved Bob, but i knew i was in-love with Scott... I kinda wished i had never fallen for Scott... but i did...... me and Scott get along better now then we ever did before,
what sucks is i catch myself thinkin abt Bob.... since i had fallen for another guy, why did it hurt so bad when Bob had dumped me?
@MoonLitLove did you have a reason? what do u think his was?
break up with Bob. Chill and be single and see what happens with Scott. Bob doesn't seem to care much about you. If he did, he'd find time to call/text/message you.
You need to discuss this with Scott. he clearly cares about you. And if he cares about you enough, he'll listen to you. Tell him that you're not quite over Bob, although you do like Scott. Trust me, I've been here...discussing things with your partner is the best option.
First, dump Bob but in person if you are able to. Second, maybe Scott is just being friendly to you, and doesn't want a relationship. Make sure if you break up with Bob to take time before you date Scott.
Well first you need to ask yourself who do you like more? Think about bob and scott, who is the one that you can picture yourself standing next to with a smile on your face and not feel any guilt with because you choose one over the other. In the end your the only one who can make the final decision.(hope this helps)
ok so today is the 16th of July... heres a kicker.... Bob's mom lives in paducah, ky and Bob lives in Geogria with his dad... but anyway today around 2 hours ago, i saw his mom.... She seemed very very verrrrrrry happy to see me and believe me this woman could never play poker.... but anyway she asked me "Kenzi how is ur relationship with bob?" i looked at her oddly andthen she said "Aint yall still together?" and i nearly cried but i bit my and replied , "No ma'am. Bob dumped me on Facebook." She looked pissed and i felt bad to have told her the truth... She then took me in her arms and hugged me tight....
HELP?!?! WHy do ifeel bad?
It's okay, Country Girl. I've been down this road. My ex, [let's call him Jason] Jason dumped me for my best friend let's call her Susie about 5 days after he and I broke up and I was really good friends with this one guy I knew before I moved to Texas, let's call him Logan. Anyways, I started venting out about Jason and told Logan everything that happened. I started having feelings for Logan but he already had a girlfriend and let me tell you, his girlfriend is P-S-Y-C-H-O. Logan knew that I had feelings for him, but made matters worse for me because I kept thinking back to Jason and about what we had. Nowadays, boys just want girls who can give them some booty. If a guy asks for it, say no. It'll be the best chocie in the end.
I meant choice towards the end there.