Im a sophmore now me and my boyfriend have been on and off since we met that was back when i was in eighth grade. Lately things just don't seem the same. Its summer now so we see each other maybe twice a week but we barely talk or text. And if we do its only for a couple of minutes not long.Its like he doesn't have time for me anymore. Is he bored with me or what? I dont know what to do. The thing is he just told me he is in love with me, honestly he has never told me that before. Which makes things so hard for me now. Should I move on and find someone who will make time for me Or just give him time to work it out.
How does his confession of love for you make things hard for you? And why does he need time to work it out? Though in all honesty this relationship sounds like a lost cause to me, so I say abandon it. OR freeze it in the friendzone for a time till he gets his stuff togeather.
the relationship seems unhealthy. maybe try and talk to him about it but if he doesnt change, listen or youve tried before ABANDON it.
the question realy is; why do you need a relationship sophomor year?
your young and have plenty of life ahead of you.
as for making time for you, thats what friends are for, not BFds kay been there done aaallll that and it sucks at the end
With everything else aside do YOU still have feelings for him? Are your feelings iffy or are they strong? The fact that you are considering to end this relationship should show you that you are not happy in this relationship. I would talk to him about your feelings and see what he says and how you feel then and there.
Thanks i really appreciate your response i really needed help thinking things threw but im happy now with my decision