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J1029 posted this thread...
Jun. 6, 2013 at 1:36 am

Ok, so I want to start out by saying no I am not jealous. I am really happy for my Bff and I'm glad she got over her ex, but lately she has been ignoring me. Our lunch conversations are about her, him, or them and I'm left out of the conversation. I only talk to the Bf if it's about her and I only talk to her about him. The only time she ever notices somthing is wrong with me is when I stop replying and then she asks me how's my day going. I just say it's fine, because she doesn't actually care, she just wants to get back to the topic: her. It's getting really depressing, because I'm talking about Bff stuff with random other friends and she should be there for me. What would you do in this situation? Because, so far I've just been sucking it up so I won't be labled as the jealous girl. 

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christina96 replied...
Jun. 6, 2013 at 8:31 am

my advice is trying not to pay attention and find someone else to hangout with if she is treating unfairly. christina96

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Jun. 17, 2013 at 8:22 pm

Actually, I disagree completely with christine96. I think you should confront your Bff and tell her exactly how you feel. If you ignore her and find someone else to hang out with, you'll just keep the issue all bottled up inside...and one day it's all gonna come flooding back. Trust me. I know from experience. Best of luck :)

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CTS207 replied...
Jun. 18, 2013 at 8:06 am

I second PeaceLove's advice, you should handle this straight and direct, explain to her how you feel about all of this *NOT THROUGH TEXT* and then depending upon her reaction, you should be able to fix things from there.

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