I had a friend who was scared to tell her boyfriend she cut herself. She thought he wouldn't accept her for who she is, but it turns out, he accepted her with open arms. tell him and if he really cares about you, he'll stay. "Be who you are...those that mind, don't matter and those that matter, won't mind."
i agree with AnyaB...she is completely correct. If your boyfriend doesn't like you for who you are, then he has the problem of leaving a nice girl like you. just tell him..... :) and thank you AnyaB. you were helpful :) :) :)
the love guru
I have a issue that I could use some advice on...
I met this really cute, sweet, and funny girl and I keep finding that I have a problem with thinking of what to say to her when we talk. What should I do?
And should I tell her I smoke?
man....that sucks. if you cant think of something to say to your girl....man. ask her what her hobbies are. even if they arent your hobbies, ask her more about them, and you might just find that it helps. also, tell her you smoke. honestly can save you or condemn you....but so can lieing. just keep that in mind.
best of luck,
the love guru
Hey love guru! I like your forum idea, where people can write to you ... like an advice column? :D
Anyway! I've posted this as my own forum, but, I rly need fast advice. I'm meeting this guy this week, and I haven't met his before, and he's a friend of a friend, and I'm very, awfully single, and I kind of would like to get to know him and hopefully ... something might come of it? *come on, a girl can dream!* so, I pretty much need some tips on dressing to impress, flirting, and things like kissing and phone number exchanges and such ... please help me, if you're really a love guru, help this awfully lonely girl :$
hear is guys 101: if he is a nice guy, he will try to be romantic, but will be terribly shy. You will have to open him up, ask him questions. dont just talk about him, but some guys like it. and about dressing..... all i will say about clothes, is that welll.....dont wear skimpy clothes. any guy who is nice, which is what girls want, wont want to see you in skimpy clothes on the first date. wear something stylish, but if you meet his parents...you wont want to look....well you know what i mean. aboout kissing...well.....i have no freaking idea!! just take it slow. its only the first date :). flirting..... when a guy is around a girl, or vise versa, they tend to flirt naturally. but, just know that he may be shy, and may not like flirting. also, when you meet him, dont slouch their, walk up to him and shake his his hand. this may sound old-fashioned, but it worked for me. phone numbers...... i would say wait until the end of the date. if he hasnt given you his, then ask him if he want yours. and another thing about flirting, dont just start flirting as soon as you first meet him. wait, and judge his personality. later in the date, you will be able to flirt, dont worry. just see if he is uncmofortable with it first.
i sincerly hope the date goes well. If he happens to be the right one AWESOME!! if he isnt....im so sorry. bit, if he isnt, you will surely find someone. you are a nice person, i can tell. you will find a boyfriend.
with all hopes, the love guru
Hi this is AnyaB please respond to my post someone!! I seriously need desperate help!!!!
me and Anya B tried to help....maybe it didnt post?
wait....oops!! post your question again. i cant find it :(
I changed my name to AMB. My problem was AnyaB post. Pleeeease answer quickly!!!!
That was me AMB.
How can I help my best friend understand that she doesn`t need a boyfriend to be happy? I`m so worried about her, she keeps getting worse. She goes crazy over any guy that will pay attention to her, and then becomes obssessed saying "I just know we`ll get together soon" or "I feel like he`s the one" just to be crushed when he doesn`t see her as more than a friend. I`ve tried talking to her, she says she understand that she doesn`t need a boyfriend, but I really doubt she believes that. How can I get through to her?
who cares what people say about a guy you like? if you like him, thats all that matters. about there concerns of you getting pregnant.... well......just keep the guy out of your pants. sorry for being crude, but its true. if he wants to sleep with you, then he isnt the right guy for you. thats all i can really say...just follow your heart
first of all, follow your heart. if you like the guy, then dont let your friends take that away. also, they are trying to help by making you cautiouse about the guy and pregnancy, but all i can say is....if he wants to sleep with you, then im pretty sure hes not the right guy. he should just want to be around a nice girl, which is you. just be careful, but i think its ok that you date him.
the love guru
ps. i changed my name back to my real name
At the top of the page.
Okay ray, it has probably been a very long time since u saw this forum.... But idc :p, so I met this guy at camp and we became best friends, turns out he liked me as much as I like him... Now here's the kicker, 1) he's a senior, I'm a junior ( which I don't mind, but it just adds wood to the fire) and 2) we live about 2 hours away. And me being me I took hold of the small hope that SOMEHOW, against all reason and logic, we could someday be together, turns out he got a girlfriend, and I was left heartbroken, I. Don't. Know. What. To. Do. My sis says it's cuz of distance, I say it's cuz he just don't like me that way, i don't know whether to give up all hope, or keep the small sliver I have left... Please help me
FINALLY. thank you for making this forum :D
I'll try to keep this as short and sweet as possible.
Recently, I met a guy and I'd like to think we had somewhat of an instant connection. He just walked up to me out of nowhere and began to talk to me a little while back, and now we talk every couple of days. We talk about everything, and I just enjoy the time we have together, even though he makes me feel kind of nervous. One of the things we talked about was people we both know, including one girl who he said he didn't like and didn't care for. We'll call her E. A couple days later, I see him and her talking, and the next day, I see them talking SOME MORE. I bring it up with him and he gets all defensive, like it was impossible I would think that the two of them might be even friends ... E and her friends are now close with him (and he refuses to admit they're even friends), and some of my friends are saying to "fight for him" in a way. I'm not sure it's worth it. I want to know your opinion, please & thank you :D
aint that sweet of ya ray i miss talkin to yall so much havent in a while i know but hey i can give advice to all of yall to i just aint that good at following my own or others advise
im sorry yall, but i cant get online anymore. ill try to get on more though