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raymondpaul posted this thread...
Apr. 6, 2013 at 3:09 pm

this forum may sound weird, but i lik the sound of  love guru     :)   all yall who talked in my last forum are welcome, and anyone else with love, friendship, or any other issue

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Female.Loki replied...
Apr. 16, 2013 at 11:58 am

I'm all for love help :'/

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raymondpaul replied...
Apr. 16, 2013 at 10:31 pm

yayyyyyy! just ask, and ill answer   :)

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Female.Loki replied...
Apr. 17, 2013 at 11:54 am

There's this guy I've been dating on and off and he was hanging all over me, and I finally was like"look I'm done with this because i can't deal with this right now" and then about two or three hours later this other guy asked me out and I guess I'm going out with him now (I think my friend hailey forced him to) and my ex is getting all angry saying "If you cared about us at all you would wait longer to date someone after we just broke up" And idk, it's reall yfrustrating and I odn't know how to handle it.

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raymondpaul replied...
Apr. 17, 2013 at 12:03 pm

man....im sorry. the thing is.....guys are dicks. dont listen to them when they are being mean. he knows that he is frustrating you, so if you get frustrated.....he wins. dont let him win, and move on with your life. i hope i could help :) if you need more help, ask me, and if this didnt help....tell me!!i wont get offended :)

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raymondpaul replied...
Apr. 18, 2013 at 8:47 pm

dont let him get too you. you are letting him win.....DONT!!!!!  just ignore him. thats all i can say   :)  guys are jerks sometimes.....hes one of them

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FireloverThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Apr. 19, 2013 at 12:38 pm

my problem is kind of like Loki's. i broke up eith this guy about a year ago, but now he wont leave me alone. i dont like hurting peoples feelings but i have to tell him to just finally leave me alone. :/ the last time i told him he made me feel really guilty and brushed it off like nothing. please help me.

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Apr. 19, 2013 at 3:12 pm

alright, i've liked this girl since fifth grade(let's call her M)(i'm in 10th grade now) and i haven't even seen or talked to her since april 2012. i've tried emailing her and i get no response, i don't have her phone number, and now i like this girl in my online school. how do i move on from the M? i still like her, but i don't know why. i can't even contact her, my best chances are seeing her at the golf course which the chances are next to none, it's only happened twice withing the past 2 years. so how do i move on?

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raymondpaul replied...
Apr. 19, 2013 at 7:33 pm

@ packerbacker......life is full of people. that doesn't mean that they are the right people for you, but it does mean that you will naver be lonely. just have fun and enjoy life.....before you know it the right girl will be in your arms :) just try to forget her. i know this is hard....ive been through it :( but please just try it.....best of luck!!!!

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raymondpaul replied...
Apr. 19, 2013 at 7:39 pm

i could just tell you the same thing....but i wont. i hate repeating the same advice   :). so, my advice is to knock his butt out!!!!!(jk)  just tell someone like his parents. this may seem lame, but it might work. if it doesn't, then try the first one   ;)   or just ignore him.....and yes im repeating my last advice :)

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raymondpaul replied...
Apr. 19, 2013 at 7:41 pm

and packerbacker......just move on with your life. if you were meant to be together, then you will. if you weren't....then you were't. someday you will find a even better girl in your arms. best of luck!!!

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raymondpaul replied...
Apr. 19, 2013 at 7:42 pm

woops....i meant were't    XD

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raymondpaul replied...
Apr. 19, 2013 at 7:42 pm

-sighs- weren't!!!!!

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raymondpaul replied...
Apr. 19, 2013 at 7:43 pm

i hate my computer....it sucks!!!! stupid keyboard   XD

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Momo-The_AwesomeThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Apr. 21, 2013 at 8:16 pm

Okay "Love Guru" (aka ray ray)  I have a problem for you.
I have been best friends with my friend (D) since 5th grade. I see him like a brother and only that. that is all i will ever see him as. He however is very percistant that we are ment for each other. He asks me to every dance and I have tried to get the message across that I am not intrested. by making up lame excuses, avoiding  and flat out telling him as nicely as I can. The only thing that i can think of to do is to be very blunt with him because he is just not getting the message. I am afraid that being blunt with him would make our friendship awkward. Any advice?

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Momo-The_AwesomeThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Apr. 25, 2013 at 4:37 pm

Yoooo love guru got an answer to my problem cause my friend just asked me to prom....for next year! should i just be blunt with him? or hope that he gets over it?

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raymondpaul replied...
May 3, 2013 at 9:05 pm

just be blunt    :(  i hate to say this, but it is all i can say. some guys can be stubborn.   i havent answered because i haven't had internet. i do  now

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whiteroseThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
May 6, 2013 at 5:07 pm

I may sound a little pathetic, but I don't know. I really, super like this guy. We've been best friends since 6th grade, and we talk a lot. One night while we were talking he told me way gay, and I think I may still like him. It's so frustrating! What do I do? Cause I mean, we're not going to go anywhere if, since he's gay, but my heart doesn't know what to do..... FRUSTRATED with myself.

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whiteroseThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
May 6, 2013 at 5:16 pm

I tried answering, but I guess it didn't post, so here I go again. :) I'm a girl by the way. My friend and I have been friends since 6th grade. We talk a lot and we eat lunch together and stuff, and we're just real close. Anyway, I like him a lot, a lot. Anyway, one night while we were talking, we were emailing, and he told me he was gay. And I don't know what to do, because I kind of still like him. I know it sounds kind of pathetic, but he's always been really nice, and now I don't really know. Feelings are hard to get rid of, you know? Anyway, I don't know what do do. I'm just so FRUSTRATED with myself, becaues I still like him, and I don't know how to get over him. Help? Please?

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raymondpaul replied...
May 28, 2013 at 10:11 am

Dear Whiterose,
if your friend is gay, which is totally fine, then all i can say stay friends. You may have loved him, may still do, but if he is gay, then let him be. This is tough, i know. It may take weeks,months, or years for you find someone else, but you will know when the day ih here.....and you may still love your friend, but move on with your life. find someone else.


with all hope, the love guru

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