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so in love, it hurts

raymondpaulThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. posted this thread...
Mar. 28, 2013 at 12:12 am

this is a thread for people who are madly in love....or need some advice about love. I may not be the best in these issues, but im here to offer support. I am on every day, so if you need to talk.....go right ahead!!!

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Cutey-Beauty replied...
Mar. 28, 2013 at 3:26 am

How do you know what real love is?

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raymondpaulThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Mar. 28, 2013 at 12:12 pm

you can never truly know...but you can have a rough idea. Tou can feel it in your bones....in the wind, the sun, the trees.  I know this feeling, and i just KNOW that me and my girl were meant to be together. is this question about me, or for you?

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zombieslayer22 replied...
Mar. 28, 2013 at 3:25 pm

What if your in love with someone but cant let them know ?

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raymondpaulThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Mar. 28, 2013 at 11:46 pm

i think that you should wait for the right time to tell them....but why cant you tell them? i hope im not being too nosy, but i need to know so that i can answer your question.

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zombieslayer22 replied...
Apr. 1, 2013 at 10:44 am

Well im falling for my friend we even tried dating but after like three days we just stayed friends  it drives me crazy though cause he acts like were together he kisses me hugs me holds my hand cuddles with me and stuff  i love him but i dont wanna tell him hes told me he loved me but i dont think he means it like that cause my friend talked to him and said he told him reason he wont just stay with me is cause hes hoping him and his first love will get back together but she is in love with someone else im just frusterated

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raymondpaulThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Apr. 1, 2013 at 4:51 pm

maybey if you told your friend how you feel.....heck, i dont know!!! Ive been through this before, but then just when i felt ready to tell her how i felt, she moved 120 miles away!! Also, i want you to know that if you need someone to talk to, im here   :)

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zombieslayer22 replied...
Apr. 2, 2013 at 12:49 pm

He gives off diff. signals its hard to know when hes serious like yesterday he told my bestie that the girl he was waiting for ended up  getting with someone he messaged me an put a sad face and asked if id hug him today when i see him later it bothers me though that he went chasing after a girl who didnt even like him and im here like ive been all along maybe i should just give up thanks :)

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Chattyquill replied...
Apr. 2, 2013 at 4:25 pm

Sooo there's this guy. We went out for 2 weeks ( Nov.19-Dec 3). I want to tell him that i am still madly in love with him, but he only thinks of me as a sister. Please help me. I have no clue what to do. We still talk and are close friends but i don't know what to do.

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raymondpaulThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Apr. 2, 2013 at 6:44 pm

i know this is a hard thing to go through.....but all i can say is that you should be glad to have him...even as a friend. or, just sit him down and tell him how you feel. if he doesn't listen, smack him a couple of times lmao ;) i hope i can help....if i didnt, please tell me!! Also, tell me how it goes. plus, if you need help makeing him understand that you love him, i can tell you what to say if you want

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raymondpaulThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Apr. 2, 2013 at 6:53 pm

dont give up, keep trying your hardest. NO MATTER WHAT!!(sorry for shouting, just wanted to get point across)

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zombieslayer22 replied...
Apr. 3, 2013 at 3:37 pm

He sat with another girl today in lunch :/ and the whole time i wouldnt look at him my friend leaned over and said he wont stop staring  i told her i know but i dont wanna talk to him i think i need a breather away from him ya know it did hurt seeing him with another girl though but its ok

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raymondpaulThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:25 pm

im so sorry  :(  my old gf did the same thing to me (i know i say this all the time, but its true) just keep trying your hardest....youll get through it. somewhere there is another person for you. good luck   :)

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CuteBird1024 replied...
Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:43 pm

It' just too confusing. I thought I was over this guy. But obviously I'm not. While I'm falling for another guy. I dont get love. I guess no one does.

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raymondpaulThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Apr. 4, 2013 at 11:14 am

I dont get love either, but i can sometimes understand it from exsperiance. I may still be young, but i am at least kinda experianced (i hope). Yes, love is confusing, but it becomes easier as you get older. I have thought that I have been in love so many times....but it didnt work out. I was sad, but now that i older, i see that we wernt made for each other. I hope you can find the person you need in your life   :)

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mnm08 replied...
Apr. 4, 2013 at 12:54 pm

I believe that love is an illusion or it can be as real as you want it to be :) love should be about honesty and genuinely caring about someone, and liking them for who they r both on the inside and outside. Love should be real, not superficial. Love should be everlasting. Temporary love is superficial.. it isn't worth it. Sometimes.. i believe that the media/society over emphasizes love to the point where it creates confusion. Love is simple, it is when u truly feel in tune with the person that u r in love with :) 

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Chattyquill replied...
Apr. 4, 2013 at 4:53 pm

what should i tell him?
 

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raymondpaulThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Apr. 4, 2013 at 10:26 pm

say something like this: "I feel something for you. I know you just like me as a sister, but im just getting my feelings across to you. you may not want to date, and i respect that, but i cant help my feelings for you. please, can you at least give us a chance?' 
 just a note:he enjoys your company, and haveing you as a sister. He is afraid that if he dates you, something will happen, and he will lose you.  good luck   :)

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Chattyquill replied...
Apr. 5, 2013 at 4:37 pm

thanks ray
 

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raymondpaulThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Apr. 5, 2013 at 6:41 pm

no prob   :) i hope i could help

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