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Help! I like my boy bestfriend, buts he's possibly g.ay
I like my freind and we dated for a few days but he said he rather be friends yet still acts like we're together it drives me crazy plus i think its possible he might like his bestie its just frusterating i like him like crazy and i admit i even get jelous when he is around other girls he does the same though..Thoughts??
He's possibly gay, which means that you still have work to do:find out if he actually is. If that's true, there's no use pursuing it further- you'd have to get over him. If not, well, then probably he likes you back too! Take it slow, and confide your feelings frankly in him. Being honest about your thoughts is the best thing you can do to prevent the situation from worsening. It may be hard at first, but the situation will only degrade with time. Good luck!
The guy you like seems to be playing around, he's probably not worth you. Let him know that if he's broken up, he's got to stop playing around. Ask him clearly if he wants to stay together with you or not. If it's over, make it clear between the two of you, and with your friends. Don't entertain his flirting, or if it gets too much, even his friendship , he is , as I said, not worth you.
You seem unsure if he indeed is g ay. If he is-you have to get over him. If not, there's a good chance of him liking you back, and you both going out together. either ways, it's est to confide in him honestly, your doubts, and feelings, and though that may sound scary, it's got to be done. the situation'll only worsen with time. Go for it, talk to him. Good luck!
I used to go to the same school with this one guy, but we never talked there. I just started chatting randomly with him on facebook one day 3 years ago, and since then we've been getting closer spiritually and emotionally. Then, suddenly, he admitted that he loves me. Has loved me for three years. We've met 4 times since then, and kissed on the fourth, because now I love him too. Now we are physically close as well. But we are only 16 years old. And he's leaving to study in Hungary for 2 years in 3 months. How can this possibly work?
Long distance relationships are quite hard to maintain, but it looks like yours can work out cos, you already say that your correspondance already has chiefly been online-you can continue it that way if agreeable.
There are chances of it going wrong, ofc, cuz you both might meet someone else. Try talking it out, clearing it if you want to keep going or break up, so that you won't let something nasty happen after his departure that'll break all friendship between the two of you.
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I want to talk to him about it but he's my best friend and I don't want to make things awkward between us
@holly-But how long can you go on hiding your feelings? It has to e spilled out one day, the sooner, the less awkward it will be. Trust yourself, muster all your courage, and face it
I'm 13, almost 14, and I really like one of my sorta guy friends. I don't have a clue what to do!
thanks for advice hurts having to let go but i dont wanna get hurt
I have like six guys who like me, but I like them all. They all want to date me, and two have girlfriends and I don't want to hurt the other girls. What should I do? I really want to date one of them without hurting the others feelings, yet I don't want to cheat. Help me, please.
Rabbitfitzy Id stop liking the ones with girlfriends theres other guys anyways you dont wanna hurt the girls then just keep those two guys in friendzone and get to know other ones slowly maybe one of them will catch your eye more than the others you have to narrow it down if you only want one Js
you seem incredibly unsure of your own love interest. you can't possibly LOVE(atleast the crush way) at the same time, you may perhaps be LIKING them (as friends, or as good people) and the two are different. Someone you'd go out with must be a real crush, who you'd place specially aove aall the rest. and those wid girlfriends are obviously out of question. of the others also, i wouldn't recommend dating more than one at a time, which is quite a bad practice. as i said choose the one thats most special to you. good luck! \