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sassychika posted this thread...
Mar. 7, 2013 at 10:43 pm

so... here's the deal. ive been daiting my bf for 6 months now and we are in a very steady relationship. he has a few friends that are girls, and i dont mind at all, it doesnt bug me in the slightest. but there is just this one girl who all the guys think is really hot, and she has quite the reputation. im not at all insecure about myself, and i trust him compleatly, but the way him and his friends act around her kind of bugs me. i just get a really unpleasent vibe. they are in the same grade and i am one grade below them, 11th and 12th graders. i just dont know what to think, or if i should talk to him, or if my bad feeling even makes sense. im trying to be mature about it, but tomorrow he is going with one of his other friends over her house, and i cant stop thinking about it. i really need some advice!!!

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RarelyJaded replied...
Mar. 7, 2013 at 10:57 pm

Idk, guys in high school aren't really looking for a long term relationship (most of the time) and are ruled by hormones. So if this really pretty girl, who they all act weird around, is going to be in a house + boyfriend — you, then.... Idk. I don't want to worry you, I'm sure your bf is a good guy, I'm just sayin'. :P

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sassychika replied...
Mar. 7, 2013 at 11:35 pm

yeah, thats what i was thinking, but wow its really a relef to not feel crazy.. i am not really going to worry too much, but its still a little concerning

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RarelyJaded replied...
Mar. 8, 2013 at 9:28 am

I'm sure it'll work out fine :P.

and hey, if he does cheat, he wasn't worth worrying about anyway:)

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packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Mar. 8, 2013 at 10:42 am

that's why i'm waiting till i find a girl who in know i will be in a long term relationship with because i only want to date the girl i know is worth it. dating isn't a game to me. and Jade i right most guys in highschool treat it as a game(which is really sad). i hope you just wait for the right guy if this guy dumps you.hope i helped:)

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zombieslayer22 replied...
Mar. 8, 2013 at 3:44 pm

All you can do is trust him and hope he wont do anything bad hopefully hes a good guy they seem rare these days but i rlly hope hes good.Good luck :)

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