why is it when things dont work out with your girl and you say want to be friends but honestly you just end up making the girl feel guilty and hurt. like its all her fault and not yours.
why do some guys do this for????
I think when a girl says she wants to be friends, the guy is hurt and can sometimes take it as a kind of a screw-you. We're most likely just annoyed that the relationship ended and not in a great place.
so either way he just wants to be annoying???
I've broken 4 hearts in the last 6 years that I've been dating. So in all seriousness, he is not trying to be annoying, He is offering the only thing he can offer that he hopes can make amends for breaking your heart and that is his friendship.
Now depending on the cirucmstances and the quality of the guy and that of the relationship. You can have every right to throw such an offer back into his face. I hope this was not the case between you two. Etherway take time to heal and if you feel up to it contact him again. Who knows for true friendships never die.