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CTS207 posted this thread...
Feb. 23, 2013 at 1:51 am

A month into the relationship and she is hesitant on saying the words "I love you". Yet she is willing to beat around the bush on marriage (I.E she is not willing to say who or go into details, but we all know who she is talking about).Now someone please help me make sense of this madness!
But let me give a few details as to how she beats around the bush. Well lets take our rescent conversation. I live for romance, she knows that and she was talking about the fog and how she likes it. She then sends me in text a future based romantic scene *which was quite beautiful*. But then somehow that turned into what she wants for her future partner and then she asks me what I want? Now honestly I couldn't help but get the vibe of 'desperation-> I want to please you" within the tone of the text.
While to any other man all this would be a good thing. However, when your mother dislikes who you are with and the both of you are split on spirituality. Any permanent future seems almost out of reach. Oh sure fantasies and commonality are well balanced in synch. As well as our personalities are fairly compatiable.

But seriously, Ladies how in the world does it make sense to being hesitant about saying "I love you" yet willing to bring up marriage?!

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Run2Liv3This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Feb. 24, 2013 at 10:24 am

maybe she is just needs to hear it from you first? try that and see what happens. she may be one of those girls who wants the guy to make the first move. hope it works out:)

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CTS207 replied...
Mar. 3, 2013 at 4:40 pm

Funny how she only revealed that fact I.E she wanted me to say it a week later after she said it.

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