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Kparker27 posted this thread...
Feb. 20, 2013 at 6:51 pm

It is not that I am ugly, I just always say no to guys. I want to be just their friend.  I am getting pressured to have one now cuz all my friends have one. Most of them are no longer virgins. I hope I am making the best choice. 

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packerbacker12This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Feb. 20, 2013 at 6:56 pm

yes do not get one. and stay a virgin because if you have s.ex then you will regret it when you're older and you marry someone and you will have a guilt on yourself. if you do get a boyfriend keep it friendly not se.xu.ally. hope that helps:)

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Feb. 21, 2013 at 8:47 pm

saying "no" is not a bad thing, and neither is abstaining from sex. just because everyone else is doing it doesnt mean you should, too. if you hold off on losing your virginity for a few more years, it'll make your first time with that special someone even more special. just remember: don't be a follower. don't do things just because your friends are. stay strong :)

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CTS207 replied...
Feb. 23, 2013 at 11:53 am

But if you find yourself ever wanting to venture out into the realm of dating. Take my advice to heart: look for the gentlmen by not rushing things. Beyond this I applaud your descion

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deviousgirl94 replied...
Feb. 23, 2013 at 6:18 pm

yes u are making the right choice. just because u have one doesnt mean u need one. the right guy will come along for u. u are doing the right thing

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Celtics23j.w. replied...
Feb. 26, 2013 at 1:58 pm

i need a gf  

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CTS207 replied...
Mar. 23, 2013 at 3:42 pm

Relationships are expensive in gas,money, energy and time. Best wait for the right one and the worst relationships are found before 9th grade (TRUST ME)

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Run2Liv3 replied...
Mar. 25, 2013 at 11:34 am

there is nothing wrong with being single. do not feel pressured into doing something that you don't really want to do. if your friends have boyfriends so be it. some of them aren't virgins any more? fine. doesnt concern you. they made that choice and now they have to live with it. the way i see it, you dont have any commitment to anyone, and you're not tied down to anything. your weekends are free, and you dont have to worry about what anyone else thinks about you, or how they see you. that sounds like a pretty nice life you have there if you ask me. embrace your singleness. trust me-it wont last forever. dont let your friends pressure you into changing your life just because everyone else is. they wish they were like you! :)

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