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Okay , i have a boyfriend and we've been together for like a month and some days. He stays kinda far but stilil manages to come see me . When he comes over i act a little weird. Like he wants to be all close and touchy (lol) but I'm always so ... nervous. Its not that i dont want him to touch me ..because i do . But idk whats up with me .. i need to loosen up . I dont know how to tho. I just feel so silly and giggly about everything .smh ... what should i do ? I dont want to push him away . * OH ! & im not talking about s e x . Just being close ..kissing and stuff :/
I think you should just relax and just let things flow, if you don't like anything he is doing then you can tell him to stop? Does that help? Just like relax and be yourself.
don't let yourself get pressured into doing something you don't want to do. if he respects you, hhe will accept your decisions. also, if he really likes you, he will understand that it's not that you don't want to kiss him, it's just that you're a little bit nervous and/or shy. try talking to him and explaining what's going on. i'm sure he'll understand :) good luck!!