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Feb. 15 at 11:44 am
I NEED A BF BAD IM GETTING ALL DEPRESED WHAT DO I DO!
Feb. 15 at 3:58 pm
Does it matter who you date? If not then you could settle this quickly with someone you know that is actively seeking a girlfriend but may not possess any qualities you like (this method is unrecommended). You could also also one of your best friends to show some of there friends to you that are single and looking for a girlfriend(recommended but still not the best). The recommended course of action is to think of all your single male friends and find the qualities you would want to see in a guy then start showing signs that you like him.
Feb. 16 at 4:12 pm
You dont really NEED a bf. They are so much work, sure its nice to have that one special person in your life but if you are becoming depressed over it, please dont, you arent missing too much. When the time is right you will find a great guy, dont go looking and find a bad guy and be hurt in the end, let it happen and open your mind to possibilities.
Feb. 24 at 7:36 pm
dont be tempted into a relationship that you put yourself in just to be with someone. This isnt healthy at all, and will just lead to being with a guy that doesnt listen to what you say or how you feel. Alternatively, you can just be more observant with your guy friends that you notice take interest in what you do, what you like, and mainly someone that you have fun with. and trust me, getting in a dead end relationship is even more depressing
Feb. 25 at 3:49 pm
just wait dont go rushing into something to fast then youll be unhappy good luck though:)
Feb. 25 at 4:03 pm
Yay!! I get to play matchmaker. It's simple: sapphire + Celtic = forevah:) I'm a genius!
Feb. 26 at 9:27 am
Haha I'm usually the matchmaker. :P I love getting people to find love. xD
You guys don't need girlfriends or boyfriends. You need someone to distract you so you won't care if your single or not. If you want to find the right one, don't rush it. Let it happen. :)
Mar. 1 at 2:36 pm
The first thing is to evaluate why you feel the way you do. I know where you're at. I've been there. What you don't want to do it settle for any guy. If you do, you're going to feel unfufilled, maybe even worse than you do now.
I know you must be feeling lonely. What you need to do is learn to handle that lonliness. You won't be alone forever. What you need to do now is learn to stand alone. Once you're able to stand alone, then you'll be ready for a relationship.
Where you're at now, it seems like you're ready to cling to any boy that comes along. That's not healthy. If you cling now, you may very well end up clinging to guys all your life.
Mar. 8 at 3:39 pm
i need a bf but get hurt to much i just want a silly honest sweet and random guy
Mar. 8 at 4:14 pm
i guess im in the same situation as you guys because I need a boyfriend :)
Mar. 14 at 6:27 pm
Can I ask why you guys think you need to be in a relationship with someone?
Is it just for status, just because you're lonely, or because everyone else these days seem to be in relationships?
I was once in this situation, but I realized that having a boyfriend or not should not affect my happiness. I also realized that I wasn't serious about boyfriends whatsoever.
Mar. 15 at 8:19 pm
ahaha, join the club ;) I feel so jealous when I see my friends with their bf/gf and they're all cute and sweet, but, then, I remind myself of the last short and unofficial relashionship I had, where I kind of liked this guy and we would hold hands and he'd put his arm around me, and we'd hang out together, etc, but, I eventually realized that since we were "unofficial" he took advantage of it and didn't treat me very well. My advice is, that despite how much you need a bf and how sad it seems to be alone (believe me, I hear ya) you should try and hold out for something real and sweet and true, because when that happens, you'll realize that it was SO worth the wait. Look at it this way: someone way up THERE is looking down at you now and saying that they're saving you for someone special.
Mar. 21 at 3:44 pm
Ive given up for a while been hurt way to much when guys try and even mention a relationship im gone lol jk but seriously i rather wait its not worth being hurt i rather be patient then be desperate and go on a bf quest lol :P
Apr. 5 at 1:44 pm
thx for the reply i feel yeah read my poems plz :)
