My friend took me to the lake, and i ended up making out with her best friend. it was 4 in the morning and we kinda all three made out. the problem is, i have a boyfriend. he and i had been fighting for weeks, but i do love him as a person. i told him, and he wasnt even mad. hes real controling, and i am planning on breaking up with him. but i still like my best friends friend. weve made out since then, and he plans to ask me out after my boyfriend and i break up... WHAT HAVE I GOTTEN MYSSELF INTO?? HELPPPPP
First things first, you cheated. If your bf didnt care that you cheated,then hes isnt really your boyfriend. Hes the person thats on your hook. In order to get him off your hook, you need to break up with him. You dont love him romantically if you were willing to repeatedly cheat. Stay friends if thats what you want but its time to let him go as a boyfriend. sorry if that seems harsh.
I don't really see your dilemma lol. If you plan on dating your best friend after you break up with your boyfriend then you should do so, but if you want to be single, you don't have to feel obligated to date anyone. If I didn't really help you, please give me a little more information.
it wasnt harsh, its exactly what i deserve. less than i deserve actually. i should be told much worse things about myself. I know i cheated. theres a story behind it. but either way theres no excuse in cheating. ever. i feel horrible about it. but it happened and i cant go bac in change that. i broke up with my boyfriend today, bet were staying friends.
thansk for the advice:)
"If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one you wouldn't have fallen for the second." ~~Johnny Depp
Thank you:) I did choose the second one, by the way :)