There's a boy named Anthony. He is one of the flirts in my high school. He has blue green eyes, but one problem he's approximentley 5'1. And, I am 5'6. He allows me to where his hat, asks me to be is Lab partner, and plays around with me. Picks me up, and almost tried to flip me twce, but I never had the feeling that I had feelings or liked him. But, just last night I slept over at my friends kristen's house. Kristen kept telling me how much she likes Anthony. I giggled with him of the idea, because he's a midget and were the same height. But, then she started discussing how I light up like a lightbulb around him, and how I flirt with him. So I slowly started having feelings for him. So, I told her all the things he ever did with me. And, said I could have him. But, she started to look depressed so I no longer wanted him. So, she changed her mind and wanted him back. Then, she said I could have him. Now, she says whoever he asks out first will date him, and will have to be supportive. It's just I don't want our friendship to be destroyed over a guy. Though, I never felt that way with a guy before....what should I do????
Well first things first. Do you like and would you date him? If not then you should let your friend have him and as she said be supportive
Oh no not this again and worse last time I read of this situation, I was the guy and 3 girls were after me, unknowningly till the first one (my very best friend at the time) made the first move. Everyone else faded away. But anyway as to your situation...I don't know, I am a man and I figure there would be something in your girl code about this kind of situation.
Anyway, being on the recieving end...PLEeeeeeeeeeeeeeease! Do not start drama if one of you 'betrays' the other. In all honesty it would have been better if yall didn't know the others intent. So now one of you should play the honorable roll of a true victor by dropping out and finding a better guy. Otherwise this will completly destroy yalls friendship. Which is what happened in my situation and for the first two months of my relationship (with said best friend) I played thearpy listening to the fallout from the rumors her friends, who were intrested in me, had spread about her. (VERY NASTY BUSINESS!)