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nerdycountrygirl posted this thread...
Jan. 10, 2013 at 1:48 pm

I'm having a problem figuring out exactly what is going on with this guy that I like. We work together, and although we haven't worked many of the same shifts, we usually see each other at least once a week. He can be a bit weird, but I don’t really mind that. For once in my life, I actually took the initiative to talk to him first, because he was kind of quiet when he first started working. Now we talk really easily. He has started to tease me, but I don't know if that is because he likes me or because he knows that everyone else at work teases me. It's really confusing because often it seems like he's flirting with me, but other times he doesn't even say bye (to anyone) when his shift is over. We have really become friends, I think. We laugh and joke all the time. When we are working when my boss is there, he doesn’t really talk to me much, but when we’re with another coworker he talks to me quite a bit. It seems like he is most comfortable when it’s just us working. It honestly seems to me like he is flirting. He gives me complements sometimes, on something I do, or some little thing. He even said he liked my nails once when I had the colors of a college we both like. I don’t know if this is just part of his personality, but he also insists on doing things for me, especially when it involves lifting heavy stuff. The big red flag I got that he may like me is that he drove me home after work one day, and then texted me and said that any time we have a closing shift together, he would be happy to take me home.
I feel like I’m giving pretty clear signs that I like him, but I don’t know. I just invited him to hang out with me and some friends on Saturday, and he said he would go. What do you think?
 
P.S. He has also texted me "I love you!" twice when I worked a shift for him.

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Kenrichi replied...
Jan. 10, 2013 at 11:50 pm

Well the signs all indicate he is attracted to you so you definitely don't have to worry to much about that. Since he's shy though he might not come out and ask you to be his girlfriend, so I suggest you take the initiative whenever you get the chance, like during the time you all are going to spend together this weekend. Just find some alone time and ask him if he likes you in that way. And unless he just throws out the "I love you" you have nothing to fear. I wish you luck.

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nerdycountrygirl replied...
Jan. 11, 2013 at 12:58 pm

I texted him yesterday to see if he was still coming on Saturday, and he said "Wouldn't miss it." Then when I told him that two of our mutal friends found out they couldn't come, he said "Aww oh well, I guess you'll just have to settle for me."
Now I am REALLY excited for Saturday!

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nerdycountrygirl replied...
Jan. 11, 2013 at 1:04 pm

Thanks! I hope it goes well!

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Kenrichi replied...
Jan. 11, 2013 at 11:18 pm

I'm excited for you, I pray it goes perfect for you. Tell me how it went if ya wanna, because I'm always listening

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nerdycountrygirl replied...
Jan. 16, 2013 at 11:50 pm

Last weekend went great! I had an awesome time with him and my other friends. With a little help from my sister, I texted him the next day and we talked for a few hours. And he texted me a little bit today, telling me that he would do the same tomorrow. I'm really excited, I think this is going to go really well!

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Kenrichi replied...
Jan. 17, 2013 at 5:19 pm

I'm really happy to hear that. I'm glad you're taking initiative, with all the work you're putting into this relationship I know that it will go well. Keep up the good work!

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Kenrichi replied...
Jan. 17, 2013 at 5:19 pm

I'm really happy to hear that. I'm glad you're taking initiative, with all the work you're putting into this relationship I know that it will go well. Keep up the good work!

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