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So, there's this guy i've known for a while now. He's always telling me how he loves me and i'm his beautiful angel, and I can't help wanting to believe him- i mean, he's the kind of guy that you couldn't imagine him ever lying about what he feels. But, when I was talking with some of my friends about him, one told me not to worry about it, that he does that to her all the time too. I also have a very painful issue- I'm a Christian, and while he says he believes, I get the sickening thought he's mixed in too deep with the part of his life i know nothing about. Like, just a few weeks ago he told me he had gotten drunk and now he's crying because he doesn't want to lose me. I just need someone to give me some kind of reasoning about what I should be doing...
Sorry for the late response, I just started back getting on this. Sweet words are wonderful, but personally i don't believe theres a guy or anyone for that matter that hasn't slightly lied about there feelings or a compliment. I have no way of confirming the part about your friend but if multiple girls say it then its believable. As far as being in a relationship with him because of your relationship with God, I would say stay in the friend zone with him for now, because you can't save a person unless they want to be saved and if he is saved then he has some growing in Christ to be doing. Hope I was of help and I'm sure you will make the right choices regarding him.
If he is lost and confused as most teen boys are, I wouldn't consider dating him. Let the Holy Spirit open and close the doors in your life. Think them not as lost opportunties, but God directing your path. I am a christian as well.
Sorry for taking so long.Thank you both for your advice, I've been needing it for a long time. God bless you