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Confuzzled5This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. posted this thread...
Dec. 24, 2012 at 11:58 pm

I'm upset, because this guy asked out my friend, she said no, then he asked her everyday until she said yes. Right after that, I began having feelings for him, (because I met him the next day, so I would have liked him no matter what) and he sat right next to me in math, which is the only class we have together. He and Annie (my friend) broke up over the weekend (they went out for 3 days), and I was going to ask him out, but we changed seats again before I thought he was over Annie. So I asked him out over text (STUPID, never, ever do it, ever), and he said yes. We saw each other at tutorial, and I started to talk to him more than usual for obvious reasons, and after we left, he texted me saying he liked someone else, (he thought I had asked him to study together as friends, obviously he figured it out).  Then today, we became "friends" again, and he told me he said no because he didn't want ME to look bad for asking him out right after he broke up with Annie.  Well, if you're a girl, you know we have a sort of sense whether a guy is lying, and he WAS!!! I am just really confused, because he was the first guy I ever asked out before. Advice please!

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DontJudgeMe4 replied...
Dec. 26, 2012 at 2:33 pm

Ok so i have never been in this situation but i will do my best.
Firstly: dont worry, this is all going a bit too fast and you should take it instead of by day but week by week,
you need to just not do much for a bit, cool down after all this has happened.
This guy is in my opinion not worth it. He can't decide who to like and not and in my opinion those guys are the worst
Also think about this guy, do you really like him or can you go without him?
 
Thats all from me, Merry Xmas and good luck

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Confuzzled5This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 26, 2012 at 3:16 pm

I am okay, I've moved on, for the most part. It just made me mad when he lied about it... Oh, and p.s. he's going out with this girl he met on some farm now, all in the time period of a couple weeks.  He is really nice to me, and he said I was really nice, but he lied about why he said no. I wonder why...

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Confuzzled5This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 26, 2012 at 7:07 pm

I guess I was having a hard time because Jakob was the first guy I really liked...

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DontJudgeMe4 replied...
Dec. 27, 2012 at 3:57 pm

Hey there, I know it's hard and this is a new experience but don't worry, you will get through this and move on. Yes he was your firstguybut he will be your last if you get what I mean. You must move on and so will he. Show him that you an do without him. I'm sure you can do it.

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Confuzzled5This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 27, 2012 at 4:16 pm

Was that a typo? You just said he would be the last guy... Freaking out

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DontJudgeMe4 replied...
Dec. 28, 2012 at 1:17 pm

no i didnt mean for you, i meant as in guys that would mess with your head. So any news so far

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Confuzzled5This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 28, 2012 at 2:09 pm

Nah, not really. My friend Annie, who he broke up with, is now really depressed because now she "loves him" and I'm just trying to comfort her, and I asked him if he would give her another chance, but he won't, and I'm concerned for her. In the end I would rather have Annie go out with him, even though I'm not completely over him, because she needs him.

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