While I can not believe that I am posting this but unfortunately my current beloved and I have little in common other then our relative creativity. She being an artist and I a poet, don't get me wrong I like art. But honestly, I'm still a guy with ADD and I am more of a philosopher/theologian. She not so much, not that she is superficial, she just doesn't think deep thoughts (if that makes any sense). Anyway so excluding what do we have in common, how was your day and the weather. What topics are meaningful and worth talking about with ones significant other?
play the game "Truth" its like you ask one person a question and if they dont answer they loose. you have to answer the same question. some of the questions arent deep like "whats your favorite color" but my best friend (and first love) and i used to play it all the time adn thats how we got to know the deeper sides to one another, and fall in love. hope this helps!! reply if you need more help!!:)
I think I learned all "truth" I need in regards to her past. Got any suggestions as for questions to this game beyond the superfiical I.E Whats your favorite___?" etc.
try asking more obscure stuff, like what's your biggest fear? what's your scariest childhood memory? do you have any phobias? do you think you're like a family member? if you could change one thing about yourself what would it be? i have more inane questions if you like--just say the word--but try these. they're good conversations starters. :)
and if you're REALLY trying to get to know her, ask why
I could use more insane ones, anything and everything you can think of because honestly convos are dying too fast becoming simple 1 worded responses etc.
No offense, but if you can't think of anything to talk about, maybe you aren't meant to be together.
You've read my mind, unfortunatly its the holidays and it would not be right of me ruining the holidays for her.