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brittanie posted this thread...
Dec. 1, 2012 at 5:39 pm

there are theses 2 guys one i go to school with another than lives next to me .. tey both like me and i really like both of them. idk who to chose? any help?

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CTS207This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 2, 2012 at 2:43 pm

Simple formula to understaning love: Attraction + time = feelings (over more time) = liking that person (this plus more time) can = love.
So for your problem, you have to ask yourself who are you more attracted to and why? And yes it may seem superficial and shallow, but hey its not like we're omniscient and know everything about those we meet before we met them lol. That would be crazy.
Next, ask yourself do you like them? if so why or why not? and more importantly is there a chance of you developing feelings for ethir one of them in the future?
Yeah love is crazy but its only cuz we're human.

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MidnightWriter replied...
Dec. 3, 2012 at 1:55 am

Which of the guys do you think would be there for you more? Which one would drive half way across town to pick you up from work every night? Who's shoulder do you feel more likely to cry on? Ask yourself questions like that, and maybe you'll know. 

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SmileOn replied...
Dec. 3, 2012 at 6:12 pm

I'm just going to tell you the plain truth: You can't really really like both. It's just not possible. So you'll really have to examine this one. Which one do you seriously like more? I'm talking about the one you think about every day. Then I think the answer is obvious.

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