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Well.....there's this guy who likes me at my school and he playfully teased me for a long time then gave me a good compliment the other day about my singing in church. And today when I tried to ask him about his game yesterday he ignored me and walked away to class. The funny thing was his friends had no idea what was happening, because they know he likes me. But just today he was awkward and ignored me when I tired to talk to him in the hall. What does that mean? I read that it could mean a number of things, but is it good or bad? He just out of the blue ignores me and me nor nis friends knew why. I didn't know how to react.
First of all: are you absolutely positively sure he likes you?
If you are absolutely positively sure, then my guess is he's probably the one that doesn't know how to react. He might like you more than any other girl ever before. He's probably nervous about the whole deal.
If you don't absolutely positively know that he likes you, don't worry about it. He's a boy and who knows what's going on in his head.
I would depending upon the grade and age of you too alot of things can be said by these things. But for the sake of staying face, girls mature faster then guys. So chances are he doesn't know what he truly feels or much less how to express such feelings. Ethirway give it time, and report back here with anymore 'weird behavor. Oh and by 'time' I mean atleast another week.
This could mean many things, but I would not get to upset about it because yes, boys are boys and dont know what they want. He possibly does like you, which means you could make the first move. Dealing with boys as a teenager, I have learned is hard. Just remember, boys come and go.. but your true friends are always there. Dont get to discouraged by the situation, Make the first move... if It turns out badl, look at it as a well learned lesson! Just take a postive approach to the situaton and dont get to down about it!
Thanks alot everyone. It means alot. And to answer the first question, yes I am very sure he does like me. I agree with everything you have all said. I am going to give it a little time to see what's really going on and I will confront him about it after a while and figure this out. He is younger than I am by 6 months, so I am taking that into account also. Thank you 3 so much for your help. I will use it wisely. I'll just wait it out for a while and maybe try to talk to him a little again. And really the only thing I miss about him is how funny he is, but that's not something I'm worrying about. Guys....well their a mystery as mush as girls are I guess.
What grade are you in? Guys go from extremely stupid in Middle School to slightly less stupid in High School, so the reaction could mean two completely different things.
9th grade, which is probably why he acted like that.
Ya, he's probably scared of his feelings