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w4nderlust posted this thread...
Nov. 26, 2012 at 10:10 pm

Me and this guy started talking but it feels wrong and i dont know what to do i dont want to hurt him so i need advice like now

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SparklePants replied...
Nov. 26, 2012 at 10:16 pm

Wrong how? I kinda need more info, but more importantly, what kind of wrong is it? If you are hurting friends or yourself or breaking any of your parents rules, don't go for it. It isn't worth it. If your instincts are telling you he's a bad guy, talk to him, but with caution. You don't want to get too involved with a bad guy. If you just are shy, you'll get over it, and he'll understand. Post a little more and I'll get back to you! XOXO!

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SarasotaWonder replied...
Nov. 28, 2012 at 3:56 pm

I don't know if this is exactly what you mean, but I think I understand where you are coming from. With my boyfriend this summer, nothing felt "right", or what you said, it felt "wrong". I fell in love with the idea of a boyfriend more than him exactly, and luckily we both decided to break it off when he went to college. I wish I had said something earlier, but like you mentioned, he was really nice and I didn't want to "hurt him". But trust me on this one: it will be a lot easier, even though it may be uncomfortable, to stop things now rather than let them unfold down the road. I'm not saying to make a rash desicion, but make sure to have your emotions under checks and balances before you go any farther with this relationship. Good luck!

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