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sammars16 posted this thread...
Nov. 26, 2012 at 3:47 pm

okay, we liked eachother last year, but it didnt work out and now i like him again, but he has a girlfriend. I've been texting him allllll weekend, and he says he wants to break up with her, and trusts me to keep it confidential. Does he like me?

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lilliana18 replied...
Nov. 26, 2012 at 3:48 pm

Take it from someone who has been there -- he isn't going to break up  with her. He is using you as his booty call. Ever seen White Chicks? Yeah, that's where this is headed. He knows you're sitting there waiting for him, but thats all he wants. You're like his side dish, and she's the main meal. 

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Emmazing replied...
Dec. 11, 2012 at 11:53 am

I've been in this situation too and I agree with liliana18. He's probably using you. Yes, there's a chance he's telling the truth but I think you're probably fulfilling something for him that right now his girlfriend can't or isn't. You're getting sucked into something you probably want to stay out of.
Hope this was at all helpful

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AmayaEcho replied...
Dec. 11, 2012 at 9:14 pm

The most important thing is not to base anything by feelings.  Feelings always come and go, but true love never does.  Instead of asking yourself whether he likes you, ask yourself if you can trust him with all your heart, or if he values your dreams in life, or if he treats all girls with respect.  Granted, this may sound a bit too serious for a teenage relationship, but truthfully, if you don't have your eyes on forever, you're just dating to break up.  It's divorce practice.  So make sure you're ready to seriously commit instead of wondering whether a shallow relationship based on feelings is on the way.

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