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FieryAngelThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. posted this thread...
Oct. 29, 2012 at 6:14 pm

#1 is Xvaier he thinks of me as a friend
#2 is Robert he doesnt notice me
#3 is Micheal he doesnt know me tht well
wht do i do? 

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SparksFlyWithMe replied...
Oct. 29, 2012 at 6:20 pm

Well, #1 sounds ideal. If your friends, you've gotten past the trust issues. #2 might be good because then you can have the joy of getting to know someone. #3.......I don't think so.

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CTS207This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Oct. 29, 2012 at 7:39 pm

Okay forgive me, but seriously with these kinds of circumstances and conditions how in the world can you say that you're in-love with them? Unless of course there is more details that we are missing. I pray you get to know them before affirming your emotions. Especally to yourself, where at that point you can't help but act on them.

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FieryAngelThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Oct. 29, 2012 at 9:54 pm

ok its more tht i like #2 &3.................... Xvaier, i dont know wht i do without him he makes me smile when i feel like i will never smile again, he undrstands y i am depressed b4 i can say it loud, & he nevr judges me for all the bad stuff i do 2 myself

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Oct. 30, 2012 at 8:12 am

Xvaier sounds ideal. I mean I think that Robert and Micheal are just an infatuation stage. Your in love with the idea of them, which might not be them. You know. Xvaier you know. So you can trust him to not judge you. You can trust that no matter what you can still be friends. Follow your Heart. XD Best thing to do.

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FieryAngelThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Oct. 30, 2012 at 8:38 am

i think ur rite............. if only Xvaier wasnt in ISD i miss himm so much...... :(

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Oct. 30, 2012 at 9:08 am

ISD is In School Detention?

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FieryAngelThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Oct. 31, 2012 at 9:02 am

yeah but he got out 2day omigawd seeing his face i realized i havent been truly happy these last 3 weeks he has been in ISD

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Oct. 31, 2012 at 9:10 am

Aww that's really nice. What did he do to get in?

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FieryAngelThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Oct. 31, 2012 at 9:19 am

cussed out a teacher............... but with good reasons & he got into a fight bcuz i was being picked on by another sophmore guy

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Oct. 31, 2012 at 9:26 am

Haha, bad boy? jk. That's great that he stuck up for you. That's a really good friend. XD

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HotHotPolkaDOTThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Nov. 1, 2012 at 9:28 am

If you were really in love with the first, you wouldn't have fallen for the second and third. Think about that for a bit before you decide you you're really in love with :)

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FieryAngelThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Nov. 1, 2012 at 6:02 pm

i realized it is just hormones with all three cuz i would rather be just friends with all 3

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FieryAngelThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Nov. 1, 2012 at 6:02 pm

i realized it is just hormones with all three cuz i would rather be just friends with all 3

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TokenGrady replied...
Nov. 2, 2012 at 6:41 am

No offense but it sounds like you're picking between three different brands at the supermarket. You're not just 'in love with someone' when you don't know them. That's called infatuation or lust. You desire to be with someone so you're looking at your options, which is fair enough. But get to know all of them before you think you have feelings for all three cause otherwise things will just get complicated.

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Nov. 2, 2012 at 10:04 am

Yeah hormones are crazy sometimes. :) I know from experience. That freaking huge pain in your chest because he walks by. It's stupid hormones. It sucks. Haha I am just getting so worked up now. :P

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FieryAngelThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Nov. 4, 2012 at 9:51 pm

thanks yeah i probably jump into the "in-love" stage of mind too fast

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Nov. 6, 2012 at 8:19 am

Yeah, me too. I love every boy that passes by or that's single. Haha jk. :P

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LuciDavis replied...
Nov. 6, 2012 at 6:06 pm

Honestly, i think that #1 is the best choice because you guys are already friends so you know eachother well enough to know what kind of people they are. My current boyfriend and I have known eachother for a little over a year and we talked a lot about what kind of people we are and what we like and later on we agreed that we were ready to be more than friends. So, just know that since you already know eachother pretty well, it's more likely that your relationship will go a lot more smoothly. Just a thought, but i hope this helps :)

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FieryAngelThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Nov. 7, 2012 at 10:08 am

okay thanx

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