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loveissmiles posted this thread...
Oct. 3, 2012 at 8:44 am

So I have been dating this guy for about a month now and he is the "perfect guy" he completly understands me. But we have like nothing to talk about. And he is really clingy and loves to show PDA. He seriously made me move all my stuff into his locker after we had been together for like a week. Seriously? He gets mad if i don't want to kiss him. Like seriously lay off the PDA. And if i say to stop he says stuff like you know you like it or but i dont want to or i just cant help myself.
 
My bestfriend since 5th grade, im a sophomore now, traded class rings with me and prop.osed in school. It was sooooo cheesy, and we both say it's just a joke, but he wears my class ring around his neck and i wear his, and i have always liked him. We dated in 5th grade, but haven't sence then. But he is dating one of my bestfriends.
 
Now my boyfriend is all mad because i am wearing my bestfriend's ring and we (bestfriend say M) and i are "engaged". I don't know what to do. My boyfriend(K) and i are fighting all the time, and honestly i can be in a really good mood, but when i see him i am instantly furious. Please help me. I don't know what to do, but i know i need to do something before it gets too crazy.

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Oct. 3, 2012 at 9:24 am

You need to break it off with him. People like that can be very agressive and can even hit you if they get mad. Believe me, I've been in that situation. Do not get your life caught up in someone that makes you angry all the time. It makes your love life complicated and they will lower your self esteem to where you think that you can't get anyone else. My advice, just break it off. 

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Kenrichi replied...
Oct. 3, 2012 at 7:32 pm

I agree with Katie(hope you don't mind f I call you that). Just break it off preferably in a public place.

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An-eloquent-leafThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Oct. 3, 2012 at 7:39 pm

I agree with Kenrichi and Katie. To me, it seems like this guy might not be as "perfect" as you think. I mean, he's controlling you not only with your possessions (like the locker situation), but also with your body (like with the PDA issues). Perhaps it would be best to break this relationship off.

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Oct. 4, 2012 at 10:55 am

Well, if you really like him then tell him and call him out on it. If he's too clingy and wants to kiss all the time. Tell him stop FIRMLY and then explain why. If you don't have a reason just say your not in the mood and walk away. You don't have to feel obligated to be with him if he makes you feel bad. 

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