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Oct. 3, 2012 at 8:43 am
So I have been dating this guy for about a month now and he is the "perfect guy" he completly understands me. But we have like nothing to talk about. And he is really clingy and loves to show PDA. He seriously made me move all my stuff into his locker after we had been together for like a week. Seriously? He gets mad if i don't want to kiss him. Like seriously lay off the PDA. And if i say to stop he says stuff like you know you like it or but i dont want to or i just cant help myself.
My bestfriend since 5th grade, im a sophomore now, traded class rings with me and prop.osed in school. It was sooooo cheesy, and we both say it's just a joke, but he wears my class ring around his neck and i wear his, and i have always liked him. We dated in 5th grade, but haven't sence then. But he is dating one of my bestfriends.
Now my boyfriend is all mad because i am wearing my bestfriend's ring and we (bestfriend say M) and i are "engaged". I don't know what to do. My boyfriend(K) and i are fighting all the time, and honestly i can be in a really good mood, but when i see him i am instantly furious. Please help me. I don't know what to do, but i know i need to do something before it gets too crazy.
Oct. 4, 2012 at 8:48 am
Oh hello there. The best suggestion that I can come up with is that you try to talk with your boyfriend and explain him the situation that he doesn't need to be worried that its more of a friendship engagement thing. Other than that if he doesn't understand search for the answer in your heart that if he's cranky about this part and as you have mentioned he is possessive too will things work out between you guys in the future? Think about it and if I crossed ky boundaries I apologize. cheerio
Oct. 8, 2012 at 7:06 pm
I agree with El_Nino, talk it out, tell him whats up and if nothing changes after he see's the truth in how his clingyness makes you feel.
Please, by my own account with 4 drama queens, 2 super clingy and 1 psychopath, I urge you to break up with him, If nothing changes
Oct. 9, 2012 at 12:24 am
I think your boyfreind is over reacting with the pda , remember its not only his desicion but also yours make sure he knows no means NO. Also i think wearing your friends ring might have made your boyfriend defensive. If you want to keep your boyfriend make sure he knows HES your boyfriend and not your friend. Talk it out with him and make him feel comfortable with you being friends with the other boy.
