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So um....wow. Please Help.

loveissmiles posted this thread...
Oct. 3, 2012 at 8:38 am

So I have been dating this guy for about a month now and he is the "perfect guy" he completly understands me. But we have like nothing to talk about. And he is really clingy and loves to show PDA. He seriously made me move all my stuff into his locker after we had been together for like a week. WTF? He gets mad if i don't want to kiss him and is always trying to feel me up. Like seriously lay off the PDA. And if i say to stop he says stuff like you know you like it or but i dont want to or i just cant help myself.

My bestfriend since 5th grade, im a sophomore now, traded class rings with me and proposed in school. It was sooooo cheesy, but we both say it's just a joke, but he wears my class ring around his neck and i wear his, and i have always like him. We dated in 5th grade, but haven't sence then. But he is dating one of my bestfriends.

Now my boyfriend is all piss.y because i am wearing my bestfriend's ring and we (bestfriend say M) and i are "engaged". I don't know what to do. My boyfriend(K) and i are fighting all the time, and honestly i can be in a really good mood, but when i see him i am instantly piss.ed off. Please help me. I don't know what to do, but i know i need to do something before it gets too crazy.

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zombieslayer22 replied...
Feb. 27, 2013 at 3:49 pm

Even though its your bestfriend id give him back his ring cause it will just cause probs. then talk to your boyfriend tell him how you feel about his PDA and if he doesnt listen then he doesnt respect you .

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BookLover128 replied...
Feb. 27, 2013 at 4:49 pm

If it was me, I'd break up with your boyfriend if that's how he is all the time.

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MidnightWriter replied...
Mar. 1, 2013 at 2:23 pm

That boyfriend is DANGEROUS. You need to get away now. It doesn't sound like he respects you. It sounds like he'd trying to control you. Don't let yourself be controlled. When a guy tries to kiss you or touch you, and you say no, that guy should understand that "No" really does mean no. Your relationship does not sound healthy. 

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RedsFan23 replied...
Mar. 6, 2013 at 5:22 pm

This is my debut here on this particular forum (and I kinda feel like my man-card is going to be revoked), but this really sounds at best like an "irreconciable problems" situation and at worst a "creepy, controlling psycopath" situation like MidnightWriter outlined. Either way, no doubt you should break up with him. It may be hard, but he obviously doesn't make you happy and I'm sure you'll be relieved once you're done with him.

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alice_swim_n_skate replied...
May 26, 2013 at 9:39 pm

I've dealt with a super clingy boyfriend before. My advice would be to sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel about everything, then let him talk. Try to resolve the issue. Give it a little time; change won't happen overnight most likely. If it doesn't get resolved, then I would break up with him. To be honest, high school relationships rarely last anyway, and they lead to more divorces than relationships that start at any other time in a person's life. So maybe he isn't the one for you. And that's okay, you are young.

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zander101 replied...
May 30, 2013 at 7:07 pm

never let a guy touch you when you say no!
and the class ring? please, my best friend is a girl and she gave me a teddy bear i sleap with every night, sorry if thats wierd.
if he cant deal with a frikkin class ring leave that sorry...
anyway you are not gonna wanna be with a guy when he alwase wants it.
and the old " i cant help myself" thing? ima guy and i can help myself.
tell him that you dont want to touch for a few days and see what he says.
promis hel get madd, i used to be that guy and this wont be pretty, you may also be in physicle danger so be careful

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