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White-Horse posted this thread...
Aug. 27, 2012 at 2:15 pm

So, I really really feel like I need to sleep with someone. I can't get my horm.ones out in any other way, but every guy I know is Mormon, so I don't know what to do. HELP ME!

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Aug. 27, 2012 at 9:14 pm

Okay. Are you sure? Because sleeping with someone for the first time is a BIG deal... and you might regret it if you do it without thinking about it seriously.

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BucketFillerThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 28, 2012 at 9:45 am

Okay, Maybe this will sound like I'm trying to act like an old adult shaking their finger at you, or like I am just being cliche, but don't do it!  Sleeping with someone won't make anything better!  It leaves you with so much regret and baggage, especially if you are just doing it to do it, and not because you love the person!  Maybe I am a weirdo, but I think it would be the most special thing in the world to 'sleep with someone' for the first time on my wedding night, no regrets.

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Aug. 28, 2012 at 10:00 am

You're not weird, BucketFiller! I have the same idea. I want to 'sleep with someone' for the first time on my wedding night too. No regrets. =)

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White-Horse replied...
Aug. 28, 2012 at 10:20 am

Then, could someone please tell me how I can get rid of all these crazy raging hormon.es?

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sorla replied...
Aug. 28, 2012 at 3:33 pm

 
Ok, I'm not gonna encourage you to go sleeping with anyone, but if that's what you wanna do, go for it. But if it's just a problem of horm.ones, try mastur.bation. It's not just for guys.

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White-Horse replied...
Aug. 28, 2012 at 4:26 pm

I do that every effing night and I''m still hor.ny as heck!

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sorla replied...
Aug. 28, 2012 at 7:08 pm

I see the problem. Well, use a con.dom. Use a cond.om!!!!

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NiallsGirl replied...
Aug. 28, 2012 at 7:29 pm

I kind of need a guy first!          

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drmstarlet21 replied...
Aug. 28, 2012 at 8:44 pm

Mind if I ask how old yall are? Just curious!

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sorla replied...
Aug. 28, 2012 at 9:28 pm

Don't go out looking for se.x, liberty. I started doing that in the 8th grade and I wish I had waited. It has to come naturally. And I'm 16. 

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loveissmilesThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 29, 2012 at 7:48 am

i agree with SORLA! I started young too, and i have a lot of regret. Dont get me wrong, im not saying that it was all bad, but naturally i have regrets. I wont tell you not to do it, but i sure a he.ll wont tell you to do it. It's up to you, but no matter what protect yourself, not just from ST.Ds. From pregn.ancy too. Use a Con.dom and if at all possibe get on bit.th control, because con.doms do break.

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BucketFillerThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 29, 2012 at 9:19 am

Some of these responses are making me sick. Thank you, and I hope you stick to that!!!!!

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BucketFillerThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 29, 2012 at 9:21 am

I'm talking to Beckah.Rainbow_Dash1 when I said that.

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NiallsGirl replied...
Aug. 29, 2012 at 12:56 pm

okies, thank you so much you guys! :D

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Giratina replied...
Aug. 29, 2012 at 10:46 pm

Wow....There is actually girls that are per.verted like me.You could always try fa.pping

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NiallsGirl replied...
Aug. 30, 2012 at 12:16 pm

What is that?       

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Aug. 30, 2012 at 12:22 pm

Please don't just jump into bed because you feel like it. I'm begging with you. It's a huge huge mistake. Just try to find some other ways to chill down. Excersise helps me, sometimes, or just distracting my mind with things that aren't guys, and have nothing to do with guys. Just put it out of your mind.

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Shade-the-Giratina replied...
Aug. 30, 2012 at 7:34 pm

Fa.pping is mast.urbating to something

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nikkigonefishin replied...
Aug. 30, 2012 at 10:42 pm

Be Warned You Asked For Mature Help. Don't do it. I am telling you straight up that it will not lead to anything great. Do you know the consequences of having s.e. x? Pregnancy my dear thats what. Perhaps the fact that they are all Morman is a sign that you should not do it. Please you do not want to ruin your life just because of some out of control hormones. It isn't worth it. Everything has its time so just be patient and try to control yourself. I am not sure how old you are but do not have s.e.x until you are ready and by that I mean independent and able to support yourself and possibly a baby.

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