My oldest brother is visiting for a little while, to get some of his stuff to send to Florida. My niece and nephew are here for the day, and we were going to go shopping and make gingerbread men.
But this morning...My mom and I found my Grandmother on the floor. We called an ambulance and she's in the hospital with a broken shoulder and wrist. They can't operate on the shoulder, because the dr.ugs could kill her...So her shoulder won't ever heal...
I am so sorry to hear that Aeliss! :'( *huggles*.........
Dang, that sucks. I hope she'll be alright. : /
*huggles back* She's in a hospital right now...And she can't live with us anymore. :( I might be visiting her later.
I'm so sorry Aeliss. :( *huggles*
*huggles everyone* She passed away today...
*huggles*...... May she rest in peace :(
She's with my Granddaddy now. :')
That's good :) *huggles*
Yesterday when I went to visit her she was on a lot of morphine, and kind of out of it. She knew we were there, and when my oldest brother (who was visiting for a few days) kissed her on the forehead and told her he had to go and he loved her, she tried to say something, but I don't know what it was. Today my cousin visited her, and she was completely unresponsive. Even when nurses moved her a bit, she didn't wake up.
She isn't hurting anymore though. :')
That's a very similar situation as my grandma before she passed away. It's good that your grandma is not in anymore pain. :)
Yup. :) But still...A week ago, we thought we'd have more time. We knew it wouldn't be long, but...I was going to draw her a picture for Christmas.
We thought the same with my grandma...... last time I visited her, she was laughing and talking in her hospital. Two days later she passed away... Draw the picture still. She's in heaven so she'll still be able to see it :)
*huggles* Thanks...I think I will. :)
Wow, I'm sorry Aeliss. :( *hugs*
*hugs Aeliss* I'm so sorry, Aeliss
*huggles Aeliss* Sorry... :/
I realized something the other day...I don't really grieve. I'm upset, and there have been way too many tears the past few years (unintentional rhyme), but it's not grief. When I thought I'd never see one of my nieces and my nephew again...It was the exact same emotion as when my Grandmother passed away. I'm not said that she's dead, I'm sad that I won't see her again for a long time.
*hugs* Welcome back for now, by the way. I get how you feel. It was that way for me, for my grandma when she passed. H.ell, when Aly was gone, it was that.
*hugs* I don't know if I'm staying, things are still crazy over here. We're remodeling the master bedroom, taking care of all of Grandmother's stuff, Christmas, and my sister, two nieces, and brother in law are visiting...So I don't know how much I'll be able to get on.