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An-eloquent-leafThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 14, 2012 at 11:10 pm

Oh psh Rosie, stop that. What color are your eyes?

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Larky replied...
Jun. 14, 2012 at 11:12 pm

It wont help. It means you are giving in. Im still going back to parental consent. The doctor hopefully knows this.

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i.hope.u.dance replied...
Jun. 14, 2012 at 11:17 pm

yeah. u dont need that. just change ur style. *hugs* I have to go, goodnight. stay safe. stay beautiful

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Brown-Eyed_Demon replied...
Jun. 14, 2012 at 11:28 pm

Rosie, don't make me become the crazy Inkie you don't know who goes off on an extremely lengthy, yet appropriately necessary, post about how truly wrong you are. Because, trust me, I will give you a speech. I don't care if you know me or not. And you know what? I'm giving you the speech anyway. Right now. So buckle up.

I don't care if the sweet lord baby Jesus (my apologies if you are not Catholic/your religion does not believe in Jesus; that's just how the phrase goes) himself comes down and tells you all those horrible things. I would ask, no, BEG, you to roundhouse kick him in the face. I know you can't exactly get away with roundhouse kicking your mother, but you need to take a stand. TELL HER TO STOP. I've been in your shoes before. And those shoes are suffocating and extremely uncomfortable. Though she's your mother (though I don't see how any real mother could say that to her child) you need to understand that you can yell at her and scream about just how wrong she is. It is her job, no, her RESPONSIBILITY, to love and care for you. What she's doing is ultimately unacceptable. And if you believe her, that only shows that you have knuckled under for far too long. Get up off the ground, dust yourself off, and fight for yourself. Plastic surgery can go horribly wrong. Just because you envision everything becoming magically better, that doesn't guarantee that the doctor won't screw up. You do not need to take this shīt any longer. Hēll, you shouldn't have had to put up with it in the first place. No one should have. But I have, and I know how much it stings. I know how appealing the knives start to look after a while. I know how tempting that extra piece of rope becomes. But I turned off those thoughts. And that is exactly what you need to do. I've never talke to you befor in my entire time on TeenInk, but I know that you are not stupid, ugly, worthless, or any other lie your mother throws at you. It is way past time that you see that.

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Brown-Eyed_Demon replied...
Jun. 14, 2012 at 11:36 pm

Child, I think I just pulled a thumb muscle typing that post. So don't you dare say you have no one to talk to. WE ARE ALL RIGHT HERE!!!! I've dealt with physical abuse, mental abuse, emotional abuse, and....another type of abuse that I'd really rather not say the name of. But anyway, the point I'm trying to make here is that when I posted asking for help with my problems, COMPLETE STRANGERS jumped right in to pull me out of the deep end. So you cannot say that. No one is here for you. I turned into the crazy random Inkie that has never met you but decided to post an incredibly long post. When I take the time to do that (which I always do because I never want someone to stand where I stood) you best believe I'm here to offer my full support.

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Brown-Eyed_Demon replied...
Jun. 14, 2012 at 11:36 pm

Child, I think I just pulled a thumb muscle typing that post. So don't you dare say you have no one to talk to. WE ARE ALL RIGHT HERE!!!! I've dealt with physical abuse, mental abuse, emotional abuse, and....another type of abuse that I'd really rather not say the name of. But anyway, the point I'm trying to make here is that when I posted asking for help with my problems, COMPLETE STRANGERS jumped right in to pull me out of the deep end. So you cannot say that. No one is here for you. I turned into the crazy random Inkie that has never met you but decided to post an incredibly long post. When I take the time to do that (which I always do because I never want someone to stand where I stood) you best believe I'm here to offer my full support.

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Jun. 15, 2012 at 8:37 am

Your are beautiful!! Just find it within  yourself! You can do it! I ue to think that my outer image was all that mattered. I DOESN'T. 

 

There is more to life then just clothes, make up, and hair. There is so much MORE. You can do it, you CAN. Please, just try, you have to try. Otherwise you will keep thinking those thoughts. 

 

I really want you to live, who knows? You could do great things, all you have to do is try, and believe in yourself. *hugs*

 

~Free :)(:

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i.hope.u.dance replied...
Jun. 15, 2012 at 2:57 pm

dont worry, go ahead and vent Rosie...

 

true- theres much more to life than just looks. what really matters, is what you decide to do with your time. re-read that sentence over n over. cuz its true.

 

but my question is- do u have a job right now Rosie?

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i.hope.u.dance replied...
Jun. 15, 2012 at 3:45 pm

apply for a job at the grocery store. or food service. a shoe store. hobby lobby. then u should use the money for new clothes instead. a change in clothes can really change ur outlook. like give yourself a makeover. get a cute hairstyle. the plastic surgery would be in two years. I suggest you try to help yourself feel better now.

 

Are you in school?

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i.hope.u.dance replied...
Jun. 15, 2012 at 4:23 pm

K wait- I just realized- transportation- if u wanted a job. Would it be too hard to get there? Maybe find a closer place where u can bike there or take a bus. And if youre doing that right now and its not working, you have to go in a different direction/style that will appeal to you. and I dont mean surgery

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i.hope.u.dance replied...
Jun. 15, 2012 at 4:25 pm

by 'that' I meant the personal makeover

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Aeliss-NovakThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 15, 2012 at 5:43 pm

Write a list of all the things that make you happy. EVERY SINGLE ONE. I bet that it will be much, much longer than the bad ones. Make Leafy's list too. It can't hurt.

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Aeliss-NovakThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 15, 2012 at 8:20 pm

It's good that you're feeling better. :) *hugs Rosie* I still don't think you need it though.

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Aeliss-NovakThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 15, 2012 at 8:20 pm

It's good that you're feeling better. :) *hugs Rosie* I still don't think you need it though.

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i.hope.u.dance replied...
Jun. 15, 2012 at 10:26 pm

:) Rosie, Im so happy you atleast hinted to your mom. Talking is so good, it helps you to talk about things. Im glad u feel this better

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