I see what you are saying and I agree, I'm actually a sculpture so I definiently believe God created the human body very beautifuly. And, yes society does seem to have that apinion that if you dress that way "you must be insecure"... But that's I think some what beside the point. The reason I dress modestly is to represent God well and not be a "stumbling block" of lust to others, causing them to sin. I also dress modestly so a guy will like me for me and not just my body. Plus it's a safety thing. I don't want to atract the wrong type of dangerous guy by "teasing" him with the way I dress... The body is beautiful but we cover it up to help us keep from lustful sin and because God covered us after the fall of man... plus the other reasons I've mentioned.
I'm so glad you (PrettyPinkButterflyKid) are that way! So am I! In fact I don't wear bikinias, it looks like people are in theie underwear and bra. Besides guys have such good imaginations, I don't want people seeing me like that and it's not practicle either. I can't even dive in a pool without a bikini coming off... and why bother cover up in the first place if you're basically nude? Or almost. To swim, I wear a swim shirt, it helps me not get sunburned anyway and little board shorts/swim shorts.
I am a boy.
1.i prefer to see a girl dress modestly, to me it shows that she isn't desprate and is waiting for the right guy.
2. when i see a girl dressed imodestly i think that they are desperate or "popular". and i don'tfeel attracted to them at all.
3. i am attracted to a girl who dresses modestly because it shows self- security and not desperate. i like them because inthe long run they are the one's who don't leave you. and the desperate one's are more likely to leave you.
I dress modest.. I dress that way cuz, well i was raped a while back and i find being modest a way of making myslef invinsible. I dont want guys to look at me and lust for me. Its maked me feel uncomfterable. Plus i just dont feel confterable reaviling to much skin.....and ceartain body parts...
I dress in between. My shirts can be low, but most of the time I wear a tank. yes there tight, but I am skinny and it looks better. I am a christan, but I feel like I should dress how i feel comtroble. I wear lwr cut shirts because they are more comtroble to me. I wear tanks alone because I get hot.
I don't judge others becuase they could judge me. although i feel sorry for them.
1.) I'm basically somewhere inbetween. I like tight fit clothing and some low cut shirts, but I wear something underneath..like a cami.
2.) I only wear skinny jeans. I can honestly say that I do not own one pair of flare or boot cut jeans, I love them, but I've never bought them because I think the tighter jeans are cuter and more my style. AND...In the summer, I wear short shorts, but not to were you can see my butt.
3.) I just kind of keep my opinion to myself, because that's their own stupid decision.
I tend to do whatever I want, I don't look to a spiritual guide to tell me what to do and what to wear- I couldn't care less if anyone- no matter how holy- has a problem with it. I'm not a slut and I'm not trying to get attention, I just like to show what I have. Society has decided that showing too much skin is dirty, but in the natural world we were created to be nude! We were not built to wear turtle necks and jeans, we only evolved to that state because someone decided. Let your freak flags fly, no one will watch unless you want them to :)
i could care less about how i dress or how others dress. ever i ever visit a nude beach, im going for it! I'm not saying I let everything hang out all the time- It's super hot here and I HATE being hot. Sooooo. I love my body and I dont want a boy friend in high school if that tells you anything. shorts and tank tops ftw!!!