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HELP!!! GIrl ISSUES!!

PAIGEExDThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. posted this thread...
Sept. 11, 2012 at 9:33 am

Hey, well I'm a romance writer. And the problem is, I'm in love with this guy but he doesnt know my name. And lately he's been the main character in all my books and they end up falling in love. i want him to talk to me in real life though. What do I do?

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Super_Mario_ProseThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Sept. 11, 2012 at 10:30 am

Uhh you  should probably be posting this in the Regular Forums category 'Dating, Love, and Friendship'

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Boota replied...
Sept. 15, 2012 at 6:16 am

first, get him to notice you, then try to start to talk to him more and bring your name up in the conversation some so he will know your name.

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ArianaKnightThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Sept. 15, 2012 at 9:59 am

Well, start by putting yourself into situations where you might have an opportunity to talk to  him. Is he on the school basketball team? Then go to basketball games. Maybe he likes art. Join the art club. Don't do these things only to be with him, though. Enjoy yourself, learn new things while your doing it, and just be yourself. Guys are way more likely to notice a sincere, happy person than someone so desperate that they blurt out every word that comes into their mind. When you do talk to him, steer the conversation toward him. Ask about his life, what he likes, don't focus on you. People love talking about themselves. It's the truth. But don't completely keep away from your life either; he'll think you have problems at home and might not want to get involved at first. Pretty soon, with all these conversations in clubs or sports or whatever, it'll become a regular thing for him. By then, it should be obvious whether or not you should pursue this romance or just keep it at a friendship level. :)

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PAIGEExDThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Sept. 18, 2012 at 5:56 pm

Thanks so much guys :) I'll try it out and hope he likes me for me :) I'll post to tell you how it goes!

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Novelist123 replied...
Oct. 11, 2012 at 11:44 pm

Why not you just act like normal. Don't act like he's different. Just talk to him like he's anyone else. If you can't do that without feeling weird, he's not worth it.

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Epiclyawesome replied...
Oct. 12, 2012 at 5:59 pm

If he's a big reader, ask him to review your work. Maybe it'll spark something :)

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Oct. 12, 2012 at 6:12 pm

Well, I don't have a crush on anyone, but I always have characters that fall in love. If I were you, ask him if he's into writing, and if he is, then follow Epicly Awesome's advice. Also, ask him things about himself, and maybe you will find a passion that you have in common. Talk to him between classes, when he cannot escape

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Oct. 12, 2012 at 6:12 pm

Well, I don't have a crush on anyone, but I always have characters that fall in love. If I were you, ask him if he's into writing, and if he is, then follow Epicly Awesome's advice. Also, ask him things about himself, and maybe you will find a passion that you have in common. Talk to him between classes, when he cannot escape

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