You guys still okay out there?
JaneCapelle; my friend did this to me and I stopped..not immediately, but when I realized that it hurt him even more than it hurt me when he saw what I was doing to myself. With his and God's help, I stopped...I used to be numb all the time and I did it to feel something, anything even if it was pain.. but we are really hurting the ppl who love us when we do things like this.
I'm good Rayyn!(: I've been so so so so soooo busy lately. School is consuming my life. Plus, I moved! Ahh >.< Everything has been so stressful and crazy lately. Haha. Well, by the looks of it...the forum has been a little quiet lately, huh? Everyone okay?
Nice to see you again, Kate! C: Glad to hear you've been okay and I hope you're doing well in school! Maybe come summer we'll all be able to update more often.
you do it to feel and justify the pain your feeling in your heart.
Are you all right, Jaime?
im back im sorry
No need to apologize! It's good to see you. C:
yeah it is i feel bttr now tht im back.... i found i new method to stop a desire to cut...
well take a piece of ice and instead of icing ur hands rubb the piece on ur arm thigh or wherevr u cut and then hold it down and press it wher u cut most often (ex my wrist) and yes the cold kinda stings but it works
That's awesome! I'd never thought to do that. Glad you found something that works well! :D *excited hugs*
-hugs back- im gonna start postin more often ok?
Okay! That's good to hear too, I was starting to think that EVERYONE who poasted here was just gone. :( Hope everyone else is okay too.
me 2 Rayyn
today i almost got into a fight but i am feelin good abt tht
Why, what happened?
well this chick ran into me and blamed it on me... then she started callin me a bi..tch and i told her her very calmly to not call me a bi..tch.... and apparently tht was gettin smart with her and then she started threatenin to com to my house and beat the shi..t outta me.... so the day after she "came" to my house i confronted her abt where she had been the night b4 and she went off screamin and cussin and sayin tht she had showed up tht i had been to scared of her to face her and stay home for her...... then we both got dragged into the office and well tht is all over now.... so how is everyone doin?
people think it's a way to get rid of the pain, as your physically hurting yourself and distracting yourself from the emotional pain. the scars just act as a reminder of what you've been through..if you know someone who does it, try to get them to stop because I've seen how some people cut deeeeep and no one should be in the position to want to end their own life, so give them advice and just be a good friend ^^
Rayyn u told me 2 tell my mom abt me cuttin so i did..... 3 nights ago.
she hasnt let me go into my room and shut the door or be in the kitchen alone.
when she thinks im not lookin she stares at my left arm (the victim of my self-harm) and looks really disgusted and disappointed of me.... she hasnt told my stepdad or my real dad yet and i dont think she will
i tried to talk to her abt it last night and she told me "Kiersten baby, i love u to death and i care about you and worry about u. but this uh issue has to stay between us okay babygirl? ur therapist already told us tht if u physically hurt urself or other people, they will take u away from me and put in a home. I dont wanna hear about so just forget about babygirl"
its not ur fault Rayyn thanku for havin me tell her but i guess i wish i had ignored ur advice and not told her
i think ppl who wanna tell the their parent abt their cuttin/burnin/scratchin should think abt wht my mom said to me.
At least you know your mom DOES care, anyway. I'm sorry it has to be the way it is for you, though. Did your mom mean that they would put you in a hospital or put you in a foster care system? (Sorry if I'm getting to personal in an open forum, you can always not respond or respond elsewhere.) I'm glad you told her, even if this is the result.