Oh, I'm sorry hon. *hugs* (by the way, what would you like to be called?)
A note for Keirsten: since you're smiling and saying that you're fine, it's hard for others to realize that you're lying. It isn't only parents and people you are close to, but it's anyone. Because you've grown used to lying and saying you're fine, you've gotten good at it and now it's probably pretty hard for others to see it. Sometimes you just have to stop begging for help in a way others don't understand (acting happy when you aren't) and just ask for it.
i have and my mom said "Later kiersten, im busy" my friends know everything becuase even when i lie & say im fine they bug me until i tell them, and mom used to do the same thing, but now she takes me at facevalue............... just so yall know my eyes tell the truth when i am lieing and she used to look to my eyes to see when i was lieing, but now i dont think she cares or she doesnt want one more thing to worry about. still it makes me feel worthless and unimportant
Um tears is perfectly fine by me.
Tears: okay thanks, it's good to know what to call people. C: sorry again about your breakup. I wish I was better at giving advice etc, but I don't know very much about breakups. *hugs*
Keirsten: And did you come back later and ask again? Maybe she really was busy. After all, she couldn't have known what you were about to tell her and how important it really is. It takes a lot of courage to even try to tell someone, so I'm proud of you for trying. *hugs* Maybe you can try again when you have her full attention.
i keep trying, i tried yesterday day while she was cooking.............. okay tht may sound like she was rlly busy but tht is when we always used to talk, when she would give me advice about guys school and relationships (other than romantic) and when she would teach me to cook and again it was "Later Kiersten" i am afraid i will give up trying to tell her... she barely paid attention when i told her tht my depression med was making me feel worse she said "Okay Kiersten we will talk about this later" tht was 3 days ago
Wow, I sucks that the time you used to talk isn't a time you can anymore. :( I think you need to schedule a time like a coffee date or something when you can sit down specifically with your mom and tell her. It would have to be a time when she has your absolute attention.
i know and now my sister she died she had been walking thru the woods and her throat had been ripped out
Josie Faye Ann
September 13, 1998-December 9, 2012
What? Oh my god, what? That's heinous! Oh my god. *hugs Keirsten TIGHTLY*
i know she was the only one who really understood wht i was going thru and a couple hrs before she died we had got into a huge fight and didnt even get to tell her i love you
OMG who would do such a thing to some one!
Wow, that really is sad. :( I can't even imagine what you must be feeling like right now. Remember you aren't alone in trying to stop cutting--we know how that is! Even if we can't understand what it's like to lose a sister the way you did (I speak for myself there; I don't know about the rest of the group), we still know what it's like to cut and want to stop. You aren't alone even if you feel like you are. *hugs*
it was a wild wolf but i feel really bad she had moved to texas back in october and we had been talking on the phone and we got into a fight and i hung up before i said bye or i love you
well its not like you knew it would happen. *hugs* I'm so sorry for your loss
I read this before replying on the other thread. I don't know what else to say.
i know but what if we hadnt got into the fight. it was over her bf they were gonna go to a movie but i said "i donnt trust him" and she said "fine i will go to the woods instead" i said "dont go with AJ" she "fine you bit..ch" and i said "fine" and hung up
Wow I'm really sorry that that's the last thing that you guys talked about... *hugs super tightly*
Aww sorry guys. :( I haven't been on in forever and I forgot to get on here. I've been so busy. Though I have been in such pressure I haven't cut. XD So yay!!
I'm sorry Angel, that sucks. :(
Congratulations Amiee! C: *hugs happily*
Yay guys! :) I'm going on 8 months clean. I think. haha. Sadly I remember the day I started cutting not stopped.