i recently broke up with a girl who's on TI, and a few days later, she comes up to me telling me that she's been cutting herself, and she doesn't think her life's worth anything. I did my best to tell her that of course she's worth so much more than she thinks, but she's not buying it. I think she's for real, and i don't know what to do or say. is this my fault for splitting us up? please please respond. i don't know what to do and i don't want her to do whatever she has in mind. okay. bye.
well first off do you know this girl in real life?
Wow. I don't think it's your fault. If she's that unstable she was injury-prone to begin with. Now.... yeah, same question as above: Do you know her in real life?
If not, just continue to comfort her. Tell us her screenname, maybe we can talk to her, if this is a serious deal.
I don't think I you could blame yourself.
What if you hadn't broken up?
Would this girl still be okay?
She obviously has serious problems that she's dealing with right now.
I feel stupid giving you advice on what to do, since I've never been in such a situation, but I think you should be her friend. I don't know the details of what's going on with you and her, but when a person is on the verge of suicide, don't you think that more then a boyfriend- she needs someone who she feels really likes her?
is that possible? for the ex to be the friend?
I don't know, and here I go, yada-ya-da-yadding again, but that's all I can think of.
i used to be just like her.. i wanted to kill myself and i cut bad and sometimes i revert back to that...just be there for her and if you think she needs help them get an adult to talk to her