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One of my best friends is preggers.... And I don't know how to support her decision. Advice?
She's probably going through a very tough time. People are probably making fun of her, her family is most likely giving her a hard time, and the father of the baby might not be in the picture anymore. The best thing you can do right now is be with her every step of the way and let her know that you care. Give her your support. Just remember that, even if you don't agree with her decision, you can't turn back time. You can't reverse what has already been done. All you can do right now is react. I hope you react well :) Good luck!!
Well, I mean, her mon is encouraging her, the father loves her dearly, and I'm.... Well... stuck in the middle. We've arranged for me to be the godmother... So I guess Everything is ok....
just as long as she is totally sure that this is the way she wants to live her life from now on, everything will be fine. you are her friend, and i know that it may seem kind of hard to see from her point of view now, but just trust her desicions and support her in every possible way that you can. it's going to be hard on her from now on, and her life will never be the same again. help her through this tough time. since you are going to be the godmother of the child, you are going to have to be there for the child and the family when they most need you, and that is a big responsibility. good luck, i hope everything turns out fine!:)