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BassDrop83This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. posted this thread...
Feb. 5, 2013 at 9:53 am

One of my best friends is preggers.... And I don't know how to support her decision. Advice?

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Feb. 8, 2013 at 3:15 pm

She's probably going through a very tough time. People are probably making fun of her, her family is most likely giving her a hard time, and the father of the baby might not be in the picture anymore. The best thing you can do right now is be with her every step of the way and let her know that you care. Give her your support. Just remember that, even if you don't agree with her decision, you can't turn back time. You can't reverse what has already been done. All you can do right now is react. I hope you react well :) Good luck!!

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BassDrop83This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Feb. 11, 2013 at 9:11 am

Well, I mean, her mon is encouraging her, the father loves her dearly, and I'm.... Well... stuck in the middle. We've arranged for me to be the godmother... So I guess Everything is ok....

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Run2Liv3 replied...
Feb. 21, 2013 at 7:19 pm

just as long as she is totally sure that this is the way she wants to live her life from now on, everything will be fine. you are her friend, and i know that it may seem kind of hard to see from her point of view now, but just trust her desicions and support her in every possible way that you can. it's going to be hard on her from now on, and her life will never be the same again. help her through this tough time. since you are going to be the godmother of the child, you are going to have to be there for the child and the family when they most need you, and that is a big responsibility. good luck, i hope everything turns out fine!:)

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christina96This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 5, 2013 at 10:10 am

Just try to talk to her and say that I can help her if she is willing to accept it.
just talk to her and say that if she wants to keep it I can help her in anway that I can because my friend and I were both born when our mom's were sixteen years old.
I can help just tell her that and write me back,
christina96

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christina96This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Jun. 5, 2013 at 10:12 am

Doesn't always end up that way but if you want to talk just reply to me and will try to reply back as much as I can and soon as I can.
christina96

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PitchBlack83This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Aug. 30, 2013 at 7:53 am

Soryy for not replying sooner! Yeah, turns out she was faking for attention. She's done it several times in the past year, so now I don't trust her.. :/
And It makes me sad, ya know? I was all rared up to have a godchild. And then she let me down.

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christina96This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Oct. 2, 2013 at 12:38 pm

First thing is that you need to say what her decision is and and think of what you can do to help yourself for her benefits. What is her decision?, because depending on what it is I can give some advice. That is because My mom was 16 years old when she had me so I know what teen pregnancy is like because I have lived through it. Just tell me what her decision is and I can help.

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